21 Oct 2014, 12:21 pm
Sweetleaf wrote:
Now there is a good outfit... for attracting some females.
That isn't a professional image for many professions, doctor, lawyer, police officer, teacher, accountant, military, civil servant or anyone in an authoritative position.
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21 Oct 2014, 1:04 pm
AlexanderDantes wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Now there is a good outfit... for attracting some females.
That isn't a professional image for many professions, doctor, lawyer, police officer, teacher, accountant, military, civil servant or anyone in an authoritative position.
And? as I said it all depends on the type of female one wants to attract....I have no idea what the OPs preference is....but if they are a metal-head or even into punk they should wear that except with punk they'd have to put punk rather than metal patches on their vest. Of course if they also have a professional career with a dress code they should tone it down for work but when off work why stick to that look? If the OP is more of what you describe then they probably would not be into the females that sort of dress would attract and thus should not wear that.
21 Oct 2014, 3:18 pm
21 Oct 2014, 4:21 pm
Sweetleaf wrote:
AlexanderDantes wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Now there is a good outfit... for attracting some females.
That isn't a professional image for many professions, doctor, lawyer, police officer, teacher, accountant, military, civil servant or anyone in an authoritative position.
And? as I said it all depends on the type of female one wants to attract....I have no idea what the OPs preference is....but if they are a metal-head or even into punk they should wear that except with punk they'd have to put punk rather than metal patches on their vest. Of course if they also have a professional career with a dress code they should tone it down for work but when off work why stick to that look? If the OP is more of what you describe then they probably would not be into the females that sort of dress would attract and thus should not wear that.
Professionals should maintain a respectable appearance outside of their profession as they are a representation of that institution or corporation, there's nothing wrong with that appearance but you should maintain a respectable image outside of the work environment. You have to ask what type of image you want to promote, Brian isn't a biker and for him to dress like a biker would be detrimental.
It is much better to dress in a professional manner and if Brian wants to add a hipster vibe on top of that, that can be done easily. You can't go wrong with that and you can attract women at any age with a professional and sharp image.
Brian, just get one well tailored slim black suit to begin with.
21 Oct 2014, 4:23 pm
21 Oct 2014, 4:34 pm
Brian you don't need a suit. No one wears a suit to a date. You just need some casual but tasteful geek-chic clothes.
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
21 Oct 2014, 5:31 pm
Yuzu wrote:
Brian you don't need a suit. No one wears a suit to a date. You just need some casual but tasteful geek-chic clothes.
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
He needs to come across as sharp, edgy and confident. If you think no one wears a suit to a date, you clearly haven't been taken to an upscale restaurant in the New York or London area.
Here's good advice.
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/05/2 ... irst-date/
So it depends on the area, venue and type of girl, an unbuttoned shirt, skinny black blazer with black skinny jeans works well but if you are going for professional, conservative women, go for a professional look.
By any means, stay away from converse shoes, they are for teenagers.
21 Oct 2014, 5:45 pm
22 Oct 2014, 3:26 am
22 Oct 2014, 3:29 am
Yuzu wrote:
Brian you don't need a suit. No one wears a suit to a date. You just need some casual but tasteful geek-chic clothes.
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
Both guys look fine
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22 Oct 2014, 3:44 am
Cafeaulait wrote:
Yuzu wrote:
Brian you don't need a suit. No one wears a suit to a date. You just need some casual but tasteful geek-chic clothes.
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
And get a proper haircut by a female stylist. And a stylish pair of glasses makes a big difference too (you wear glasses don't you?)
Like these:
Both guys look fine
Would you have sex with both?
It's not a case of looking fine or acceptable, Brian needs to rise above the competition with the tons of other guys he is competing against at online dating. He can't risk coming across as needy or boring, he needs to come across as sharp and ready.
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