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Cafeaulait
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25 Nov 2014, 5:17 am

I was actually labeled as arrogant in high school by some people. Never been labeled arrogant since college. I dare not be confident around a lot of people because I am afraid they will label me arrogant. I can be a good looking female, I can be a well liked female, but when I also turn out to be an eloquent and intelligent woman, for some reason they don't like me anymore.



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25 Nov 2014, 2:18 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
I was actually labeled as arrogant in high school by some people. Never been labeled arrogant since college. I dare not be confident around a lot of people because I am afraid they will label me arrogant. I can be a good looking female, I can be a well liked female, but when I also turn out to be an eloquent and intelligent woman, for some reason they don't like me anymore.



That's a shame. I love smart girls. :heart:


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26 Nov 2014, 8:18 am

Butterfiend wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
I was actually labeled as arrogant in high school by some people. Never been labeled arrogant since college. I dare not be confident around a lot of people because I am afraid they will label me arrogant. I can be a good looking female, I can be a well liked female, but when I also turn out to be an eloquent and intelligent woman, for some reason they don't like me anymore.



That's a shame. I love smart girls. :heart:


I think many guys do. :) Other girls however, don't...



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26 Nov 2014, 12:20 pm

Cafeaulait wrote:
Butterfiend wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
I was actually labeled as arrogant in high school by some people. Never been labeled arrogant since college. I dare not be confident around a lot of people because I am afraid they will label me arrogant. I can be a good looking female, I can be a well liked female, but when I also turn out to be an eloquent and intelligent woman, for some reason they don't like me anymore.



That's a shame. I love smart girls. :heart:


I think many guys do. :) Other girls however, don't...

Actually many guys don't either, they stereotypically co-relate it with "being difficult", "doesn't put out easily enough" and "threatening to our manlihood".



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26 Nov 2014, 1:01 pm

Uprising wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
Butterfiend wrote:
Cafeaulait wrote:
I was actually labeled as arrogant in high school by some people. Never been labeled arrogant since college. I dare not be confident around a lot of people because I am afraid they will label me arrogant. I can be a good looking female, I can be a well liked female, but when I also turn out to be an eloquent and intelligent woman, for some reason they don't like me anymore.



That's a shame. I love smart girls. :heart:


I think many guys do. :) Other girls however, don't...

Actually many guys don't either, they stereotypically co-relate it with "being difficult", "doesn't put out easily enough" and "threatening to our manlihood".


That's their loss then.


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