Do you fall for people who are different from you?

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Hansgrohe
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07 Dec 2014, 1:12 pm

nick007 wrote:
886 wrote:
Anyways, to answer the OP - I prefer people similar to me. I prefer the introverted awkward type.. I can't stand the type who wants to go out partying every weeekend.
Same here. The introverted awkward time is really CUTE


Same. I love awkward girls. Admittedly I chat with some who live far away from me (mostly via pen-pal sites, e-mails, and Kik) who tend to fit this. I like 'em (but as friends).

I actually DID get into a rather... complicated relationship with an extroverted NT. Needless to say, although there was some success at first, it got out-of-hand quite quickly, and in hindsight it was definitely pretty dysfunctional. A very, very rough break-up, too (doesn't help she is a complete idiot). We both hate each others' guts.

I'll stay away from extrovert NTs, thank you very much.



BeggingTurtle
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07 Dec 2014, 9:18 pm

The only girl I ever dated was very shy and reserved and she kind of hid among other girls. She wanted to date me but I declined at first. I didn't know what to say. But the idea of it lingered and I told her and she got really embarrassed. We started dating that Christmas.

We always fought for what we believed in with each other. The more time that we spent with each other, the more different we found the other to be. We liked being with each other, but as romantic partners, the mechanic that we had didn't work out. So we agreed to call it off.

It's been two years. I don't see here as much anymore. But I know it has happened to me.


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