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listen to her...

Well, he says he's gonna keep coming back to me until I'm convinced he's genuine.

Gah, I really want to be with him but all my guy friends (including my bestie) just wanted to sleep and run, and what if that's all he wants?

Kezzstar, for a guy that genuine, I think ye have nothing to worry about. He sounds totally sweet, a gentlemen, and a great guy. And I think your mom is right, don't underestimate him. If he truly likes you, and as ASpie for the Lord says if he loves you then he loves you for who you are, not because you're a woman.

As a guy who has more female friends, then male, I know most of their boyfriends, and I can basically figure out if their guy is a sleeper and runner or a sticktoitive type. I lost one of my good female friends because of chastising her for lying to us about the guy she was with, and crticiing her for aborting the child she had with him. now she's with a differnt boy toy(she uses the term) and god knows what the heck is going on in her life.

But back to your situation. I think you've got something great going on.

...........

I guess so.

there is something else you're worried about isn't there?

My best friend of eight years Ray only wanted me for sex. One of my closest male friends also wanted to sleep with me just so he could get his rocks off. My UNCLE even wanted me.

Yeah, I'm a LITTLE worried.

You know, you can never really tell. I mean, there are people who become obsessed, and as soon as the sex is out of the way, the thrill of conquest is over. Then again though, you're never going to find out without trying. You're odds improve the longer you wait, and the more you know about him, and he about you.

I'm a gonna agree with Cal here as well....but at the same time, not all guys want to just bang a girl and then get out of there.

If this guy is saying all that, then you should believe him. Trust me I'm a guy and if I said something like that, I'd utterly and totally mean it. the ten percent of us gentlemen are made to look bad by the 90% of all other males who do that.

I think that this guy is genuine, and I think that you are scared because you're not sure, and you don't want to risk giving your heart out, and have it broken into many peices..

whats with de bug eyes Cal?

Didn't think we'd EVER agree on anything.

As gamester said, not all males are bad people that will leave you after their done with you. There are many good guys out there, and I reckon this guy sounds like one. I for one think you've found someone special. If there's any reason I should think different, let me know.

aye. I'm one of those guys who is misunderstood, not because I'm AS/NT, but because I live on a floor with a whole bunch of males who are all idiots, and all are very not nice towards women. I also sorta have a mentality that if I were to date a cute girl I would want to bang her, but at the same time I'd want her to know that I'm not the type who would bang and run, but I want it to be mutual for the both of us, and I that I respect her enough to say that to her and want to stick by her side.

So I can see why you're suffering from that image of guys Kezz, there are guys out there that do bang and run, but then there are guys out there that want to pursue a relationship and if sex comes into it, want it to be mutual. That's how it is with me, though I've never sugguested the sex part, because I want it to be with the person who I want to be with forever.

some of us guys are decent.... as said above, its the 90% other guys who give us all a tarring withy the same brush...


i wont deny that if i was dating a girl i would want to have sex with her, but thats the natural urge... i would wait until married before doing any of that... doesnt mean i dont feel the burnings of passion .

i would wait till im married because im Christian, but if you arnt - then wait until you are sure... if he is genuine he will wait too

Well, I had an epithany, and I think now I know he's trustworthy....and hot.

LOL although a lot of people disagree with me on the whole 'hot' issue.

'Epiphany'