fireflie wrote:
It really makes me sad that people are accusing me of being disingenuous. Kinda makes me think maybe I should just leave the forum. My son has a neurological condition, and so many ppl in my family. I'm kind of upset that I was met with such anger for saying something that I meant with kindness.
Do I like good looking successful men? Yeah, i do. Guess what, I'm a girl. I also care if they are charming or social creatures. I care if they are good. If anyone else has an issue with me being on this forum, just let me know. I'll leave.
Personally, I hope that you stay. You need to understand, however, that since Aspies are so bad at reading others' intentions that we frequently get burned. This can make people cynical, particularly when someone comes along who appears too good to be true. If you truly are what you appear to be, people will warm up, eventually, but you will encounter doubters.
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Existence, survival must cancel out programming.
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