Oh girls have it so much worse....

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because as far as I know, women can get horny like rabbits and have strong horny moments too, and if there's no religious constraints in her mind that prevent her to carry on with her hornyness with me during a six months or more of constant dating and relationship then that would be really weird; I would start wondering stuff, the first thing that would assume is,....she never even had any horny moments or sexual thoughts while being with me (who I am supposed to be the guy she so likes and attracted to him) all during this time, so I would assume she doesn't even find me attractive enough to turn her on.

What's the problem? Back in the good old days, people got children even if they got matched by relatives and didn't even fancy each others. Human reproduction is not that fragile you know.

rdos, with all respect, you are an asexual man so you wouldn't be able to relate to all of this; your brain is wired differently; you asexual people view sex as a way of reproduction, heterosexual and homosexual people are often like dolphins, they view sex more than that.

So.....mind your own business and stay aside when it comes to the sex for the sexual people, men or women.

Back in the 'good' old days, marital rape wasn't even considered a crime. Just saying.

Men are much more abused by the American-Government than women are. MUCH more...

I don't know where in my post you read anything about wanting "only sex". It'd be strange indeed, because I don't really know what people mean when they say that, so I avoid the concept. I wouldn't want to have sex with a woman if I don't trust her, or if I'm not getting along very well with her, and I wouldn't try to do anything unless both of us wanted it. To me, this means I'd have to consider her at least a friend, but my concept of friendship, with exactly zero experience, probably doesn't mean anything to a normal person, either. I wouldn't lie to her about my feelings, either, so, if this means she doesn't want to have sex with me, we won't have it.

I certainly won't close the door to the possibility of having casual sex and then falling in love, hormones being the way they are. It may not happen, but I surely wouldn't want to lose contact with someone I've just had sex with, unless it's her who decides she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. What would be the point? She'd probably be at least my best friend. How would leaving her be any better than staying with her, having sex again and again, and doing anything else we want together in between?

I agree with The_Face_of_Boo: to each, their own. I'm not religious, so giving up sex for religious reasons would make me lose interest in the relationship. Having a pre-established time of abstinence would be a red flag, because I don't think we'd be very compatible. Anyone wanting an asexual partner doesn't want me anyway.

The "harder to get date" argument is stupid, becuase whilst you can't discount the same sex relationships there is roughly equal heterosexual people for each gender, and on the whole people are forming relationships as the have done for millions of years, though on the spectrum people might struggle initiating and maintaining these relationships.

I really do not get the point of resenting people, it doesn't change your situation or make you more datable.

There was no word play in my post, so I don't know how you responded in kind. Only now did I notice your link to The Urban Dictionary.

How do you specifically have it worse ?
You actually turn out to be the MOST-Compatible with me on these forums !
Yes, ME, you GET to be 95% compatible with ME according to that non-serious Love-Calculator ^_^ !
I even took the liberty to make a Screen-Shot out of it just because it's worth printing out & framing on my wall...

P.S./Edit: Oups, nearly forgot something, this part is very important... <hugs Sweet-Leaf !> ^_^

I couldn't agree more. You're outnumbered Boo.

People aren't rabbits Boo.

What???! !! I don't even know what to say to that.

Some are. At least it seems that way.

Hmm. Looking to fill an emotional void heh? Like not just sex but emotional support, sharing of interests etc? You, know, it's kind of funny because a lot of guys who have difficulty getting girlfriends want that too but we can't get that if we we can't find a girlfriend in the first place.

This why this is the kind of comment that irritates me most in this sub-forum. Whenever guys complain about being lonely and not being able to find a girlfriend and whenever this topic comes up, it's always assumed that it's because men are only after the sex and women are after the emotional support. So, when will people get it through thick skulls that this is necessarily the case. Good God.

Dude, that's all that's being talked about from guys like Boo - gotta have sex since we're so much like rabbits! And, "I'd have to end a relationship with a religious girl if I wasn't getting any sex for that reason." Don't hear nothing about feelings in those statements.