Anyone who lost their virginity before/in college pls help

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CupidAardvark
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10 Aug 2015, 8:17 pm

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Now you're just putting words in my mouth. I never said anything like that.


Then what did you mean by your previous comment? Maybe I didn't get it, so please explain.



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11 Aug 2015, 3:33 am

Spiderpig wrote:
Now you're just putting words in my mouth. I never said anything like that.


I think you have indicated it multiple times that sex is so important to you that without it you won't fancy a girl, which is more or less what was concluded here:

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By your twisted logic, any interaction that guy has with a girl that does NOT result in sex is a NEGATIVE experience.


So I think that was a reasonable assumption of how you reason.



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12 Aug 2015, 8:58 am

Get Tinder. An ass load of college students are using that app. All you need is an iPhone and IOS. A lot of people use that app to hookup or get into a relationship. I will take your word for it that you're a good looking guy so this means you will probably get quite a lot of matches. Then all you have to do is talk to these girls and eventually ask to meet up.

All you need is to take a good photo of yourself and you'll be set.



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13 Aug 2015, 10:00 pm

Don't fall for the college f*ckfest myth. I lived on campus for four years and didn't get laid at all, despite being tall and in shape. I must've approached hundreds of girls too. Finally lost my virginity to a hooker in fourth year.

Tried Tinder too, to no avail. Swiped right to every girl under 25 in my area. Only got one match - a morbidly obese girl.



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15 Aug 2015, 5:02 pm

Words of wisdom:

It's going to suck. It sucks for everyone. It's a giant disappointment. Nothing that you do will make you a pro. And most girls don't really have their first orgasm until they are about mid twenties, so it sucks for them too. But in the off chance you want to do well anyways, pay more attention to the foreplay and less attention to the sex.

Kiss (or VERY subtly bite) neck, bite ears gently, and rub VERY VERY VERY softly in the region of the yeah. Biting lips during kissing is good too. But when you are in, do a 180 and get quite rough.

But it does get a lot better over time.



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15 Aug 2015, 8:29 pm

Willjeff91 wrote:
Words of wisdom:

It's going to suck. It sucks for everyone. It's a giant disappointment. Nothing that you do will make you a pro. And most girls don't really have their first orgasm until they are about mid twenties, so it sucks for them too. But in the off chance you want to do well anyways, pay more attention to the foreplay and less attention to the sex.

Kiss (or VERY subtly bite) neck, bite ears gently, and rub VERY VERY VERY softly in the region of the yeah. Biting lips during kissing is good too. But when you are in, do a 180 and get quite rough.

But it does get a lot better over time.


Get rough?!? Get rough?!? No.

Sex isn't always awful the first time and plenty of women have orgasms well before their mid twenties.

It's possible that your pecker was tiny, your sexual skills sub-par and that you were a slow learner so YOUR skills were the problem. That girls could orgasm just fine, just not with a sexually unskilled, pathetic loser like you.



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16 Aug 2015, 3:35 am

Gauldoth wrote:
No matter how much women and other incels around you tell you otherwise, you still feel it, don't you? That it's not right for a man in his late teens to still be a virgin in this day and age. Those are your natural instincts kicking in, and you should always listen to your instincts.
You are very correct. Anyone who says otherwise is just lying to make us unfortunates feel better.

OP if you don't lose your virginity before you enter college, then the NTs will judge you and they will find you wanting. You may have already left it too late. But you can't change that now, no matter how much wild sex awaits you in future, you can never have lost your virginity before seventeen. That unchangeable fact will follow you around for the rest of your days.


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31 Aug 2015, 3:06 pm

I made it yall!! !! ! I had a sloot come over from tinder last night and we were supposed to watch netflix but 1 min into the movie we started making out. I got some resistance at first and I told her to take a hike but then she recanted and was like uh i didnt say i wouldnt do anything with you.

she sucked my dink (didnt cum), jerked me off(barely got hard), then i threw her on the bed and thrust into her like 30 times. She was a bit on the big side so that could be why things didnt work out too hot. I had a condom on but couldnt cum and i couldnt stay hard after all that thrusting. We tried again round 2 and chit just didnt pan out. She ended up jerking me off, and i got so close to cumming on her face but it just didnt come out lmao. We laughed about it and it wasnt embarassing for me and she then gave me some pointers. Anyway, i got it in so no more worrying about the v-plates.

This girl was a complete sloot, id only been talking to her on tinder for like 6 hours and i was safe about the sex but I dont plan on meeting with her again. She said she has another guy she's been hooking up with.....................
Now the girl in the dorm room next door has been dtf all week and she told me to come over if i want to do anything. I texted her this afternoon and told her when im free to "hang out and watch netflix tonight" but she hasnt answered my text though so idk yet.

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31 Aug 2015, 5:47 pm

Excellent work gth584. We grade on a curve so please tell us your age, field of study and which year you're in.


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31 Aug 2015, 5:58 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:
Excellent work gth584. We grade on a curve so please tell us your age, field of study and which year you're in.


18, Logistics, Freshman



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31 Aug 2015, 6:00 pm

Wow what a dork.



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31 Aug 2015, 6:02 pm

Peacesells wrote:
Wow what a dork.



Hey bro all that matters is that i got it in, didnt get her preggo, and i likely didnt get any std's. I made it



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31 Aug 2015, 6:04 pm

It gets better in your mid-twenties because it isn't Fratboy stuff any more.

We grow out of being Fratboys.



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31 Aug 2015, 6:06 pm

Outstanding work gth584. You get a distinction.


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31 Aug 2015, 6:23 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
It gets better in your mid-twenties because it isn't Fratboy stuff any more.

We grow out of being Fratboys.


Yea an im definitely not doing it with a "big" girl again haha

btw im not in a frat and its like why go out and drink every weekend like ive been doing the last couple weeks cause i can get laid now you know? time to focus on priorities again and bang chicks on the side....



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31 Aug 2015, 6:53 pm

gth584 wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
Wow what a dork.



Hey bro all that matters is that i got it in, didnt get her preggo, and i likely didnt get any std's. I made it

Well bro yeah, if you want to be a dork it's ok.