Willjeff91 wrote:
Words of wisdom:
It's going to suck. It sucks for everyone. It's a giant disappointment. Nothing that you do will make you a pro. And most girls don't really have their first orgasm until they are about mid twenties, so it sucks for them too. But in the off chance you want to do well anyways, pay more attention to the foreplay and less attention to the sex.
Kiss (or VERY subtly bite) neck, bite ears gently, and rub VERY VERY VERY softly in the region of the yeah. Biting lips during kissing is good too. But when you are in, do a 180 and get quite rough.
But it does get a lot better over time.
Get rough?!? Get rough?!? No.
Sex isn't always awful the first time and plenty of women have orgasms well before their mid twenties.
It's possible that your pecker was tiny, your sexual skills sub-par and that you were a slow learner so YOUR skills were the problem. That girls could orgasm just fine, just not with a sexually unskilled, pathetic loser like you.