This is what men should do to make women less picky....

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well yes but then those women aren't for you.
yeah only place that does speed dating here is portland. which is a liberal big city.

you found a lady?

You actually like and enjoy customer service jobs???

You're way tougher than me.

Much respect.

Yeah, on POF of all places. I have my first date with her today.

its the only way I get human contact. so I guess me craving social inteactins overides fear of mass groups of people and social anxiety atleast in the limited scope of work.

hope it works out for you.
I hope that atleast a few of us can escape the sad future we face.

Thanks. It didn't work, but I'm not worried about it. I'll probably meet someone in college. In fact there has been plenty of times I could have been with women in college, but I didn't recognize flirting then and I had low confidence. Even this married woman gave me her number to "call her if I needed help on the group project." then she asked why I didn't call her, heh.

oh sorry, why didn't it?

are you going back to college?

the married woman likely was just trying to help why would she be trying go on a date if shes married.
only women who have ever liked me or talked to me much are married. married/in relationship women say I have good qualities for a relationship. maybe because from being in one they recongize what are good ones? maybe single women don't and so focus on superficial ones?
idk either way doesn't help me they off the table so to speak and single ones want nothing to do with me.

Depends, I had a woman I talked to from a pagan site that talked about me visiting her and her leaving her husband and this was the first time I ever talked to her. I couldn't see her of course, because I didn't have a car and still don't. Anyway, the date seemed to have gone well and she even asked if I wanted to hangout again Saturday. She was really distant yesterday and I figured "okay it's over." I looked onto POF to talk to my backup girl. I kept this other girl at a distance, because I was talkign to Tori(the girl I went on a date with). I actually felt bad about doing this, but I figured I should at least wait until I go on a date with Tori before I tell this other girl I found someone. I like to be cautious, but I also don't like to lead anyone on; hence why I felt bad. Well I noticed Tori deleted our conversations, because I couldn't see her messages to me on there and I clicked on "Top Prospects" that shows the people you've talked to online. Not only did she get online, not reply to my last, but she also updated her profile. Honestly the only thing I'm upset about is spending money on her for dinner. I wasn't physically attracted to her, but I figured I'd give her a shot. Big girls can be b*****s too, apparently.

Wait until you get to my age, the shoes on the other foot then, women often get a higher sex drive as they age, but they lose the physical appeal that is biologically programmed into men to desire, hence they get lonely and desperate because nobody wants them anymore.
I have taken to making my profile somewhat unattractive by for instance listing my interests as "going for a crap", I posted a picture of a wreck of a car as if I was showing it off, I still get women messaging me, they desperately need company for they have been spoilt with it their whole lives, us men who these same women rejected when they were attractive, we have learnt how to live alone, sure we don't get sex, but that fades for us. Now we can be the picky ones and they can experience what we had to go through all our lives.
I have actually had two women who have turned angry and insulting because I wasn't interested in them, perhaps they have had men chasing after them their whole lives, and now men reject them.

Men have a much stronger biological need for sex than women (read most.) This used to be a disadvantage to women because men are strong enough to individually and collectively dominate women. Now it is an advantage for women because their need of men for protection and provision has lessened.

I for one am happy for this change.

well yep. I've said it before on here. the women with the list of demands are not all well off middle class college educated thin women.
the poor jobless, big women demand the same things. so it irritates me when people defend them saying they just want their equals.

how is a fat, lazy, jobless, poor woman's equal a thin athletic, handsome, well paid, middle class guy?

no this is more a universal to all groups of women superficiality. it also apparently isn't just a US thing.

so men are worthless then? sounds depressing.
why do you want anyone to have an advantage over anyone else. people should be treated equal.

The constant gaze of sexually interested men is annoying. I wish we could all be equal. But it isn't that way. Men think of woman as potential sexual partners first, then as people.
I'm not saying you specifically. It just seems that way to me.

And women don't do the same thing?

doubt its constant or every guy. you know men do live lives. we dont' think about sex all the time. men work dangerous jobs they probably just look at you and away. I look at everyone. many do its situational awareness.

also women gaze sexually at men too.

well I do think of women sexually, thats a good sign that I like them it grows the more I get to know and like them and gets less if i start to not like them. often looks is the first thing people have to go off.
though I'm too emotional with sex for even women.
I do also get sexual thoughts of women I see in the street sometimes and I feel like a monster for it. though its usually of cuddling and kissing their neck.

It's just annoying. It would be nice if there was a way to show disinterest without being rude. It gets tiresome.