I just did the STUPIDEST THING !

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11 Aug 2015, 3:36 pm

Okay. I'll stop texting. Gonna be hard though since i keep wanting to apologize for each text. Stupid me :)



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11 Aug 2015, 3:41 pm

Again, please don't be upset.

You did nothing wrong.

When will you see your friend next--and hence, him?



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11 Aug 2015, 3:55 pm

It's alright. I think i'm handling the whole thing pretty well emotionally after all, now that i think about it. The situation is stressing me out like crazy but i don't feel sad, so that's good. I don't know when ill see my friend. Shes pretty busy and cranky because of work lately so she doesn't feel like seeing people. I'm trying to give her some space.



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11 Aug 2015, 4:13 pm

If there's one thing I've learned in life:

Always seek to maintain your anonymous self, even when you really love another person.

I suffered because I used to lose myself in my love for people.

I wouldn't be surprised if he responded to your text soon.

To be honest, our conversation evoked song in me. I'm thinking about a French song where they play that accordion, and there are lovers sitting in the park, just talking to each other nicely.



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11 Aug 2015, 4:20 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
If there's one thing I've learned in life:

Always seek to maintain your anonymous self, even when you really love another person.

I suffered because I used to lose myself in my love for people.

I wouldn't be surprised if he responded to your text soon.

To be honest, our conversation evoked song in me. I'm thinking about a French song where they play that accordion, and there are lovers sitting in the park, just talking to each other nicely.


You mean this one? That's the original piece but there are versions played on accordion.



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11 Aug 2015, 4:22 pm

I used the wrong word! I mean: "autonomous" rather than "anonymous!"

Alas, my computer does not allow me to go into Youtube.



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11 Aug 2015, 4:26 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I used the wrong word! I mean: "autonomous" rather than "anonymous!"

Alas, my computer does not allow me to go into Youtube.


"La vie en rose" by Edith Piaf, it's a very worldwide famous piece in romantic settings but I guess English-speakers don't know its name, google it to hear it, i am curious to know if you were referring to this one.



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11 Aug 2015, 4:34 pm

That...or something very similar.

I was also thinking of the Champs D'Elysee song

Or maybe a little bit of "Gigi."



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11 Aug 2015, 4:48 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
If there's one thing I've learned in life:

Always seek to maintain your autonomous self, even when you really love another person.

I suffered because I used to lose myself in my love for people.


Yes, I've also learned that lesson the hard way. Ive been trying to keep my feelings in check and I think I'll be okay even if I lose him as a friend. At the same time, I guess I should admit to myself that it's not just a little crush anymore...



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11 Aug 2015, 4:54 pm

I think you're a very smart lady.

Are you going to university right now?



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11 Aug 2015, 5:10 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I think you're a very smart lady.

Are you going to university right now?


Thank you. Dont know what I said to derserve that compliment but I appreciate it all the same :D

I'm currently doing a ... Don't know what word to use there. My english is failing me. Let's say I pay for lessons I receive through the mail. When I'm done, I can work in a pet store as auxiliary of animal health. Not a very ambitious goal but I love animals and this truly is my dream job.



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11 Aug 2015, 5:13 pm

You're taking what is called a "correspondence course."

The reason why I think you're smart is because you write in English almost like it's your native language.

A most laudable goal! Good luck with that!



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11 Aug 2015, 5:21 pm

I hope it works out for you. Update us! If he sleeps with a lot of people as you say, he should respect you and at least respond appropriately at this point. :D



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11 Aug 2015, 5:25 pm

Correspondance course. Yep, that's what I thought but I wasn't sure.

Thanks everyone for all your help. I'll let you know what happens. I will also spend more time on this site. I missed wrongplanet. It truly is a wonderful little corner of the internet.



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11 Aug 2015, 6:21 pm

Do you realize how many English words are of French origin? There are so many!



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11 Aug 2015, 6:35 pm

I wonder if Autistics/Aspies or people of Japanese-like culture/interests-beliefs just simply on average have a lot of difficulty with being able to be honest with their feelings/thoughts with others... vraiment une question à demander ! :o


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