I'm a 27 year old virgin

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auxiliary2418
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22 Aug 2015, 3:28 am

You're right it will happen anonymous

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26 Aug 2015, 3:27 am

hopefully it happens for you soon OP, ideally before 30, and desperately hoping before 40, damn blasted Hollywood.

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26 Aug 2015, 3:35 am

Deary me, some of the stuff I've just read... There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 27. I know a man who was until he was 35. Do I think it's odd? No, I think it's nice and refreshing that someone waited for the right person. People like that don't seem to come around very often so I think it's actually an attractive thing. I wouldn't even worry about it, it will happen when it happens. If it doesn't, that's not a bad thing either.

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26 Aug 2015, 6:23 pm

cheryll wrote:

Looking back at your life and you regret it. I don't want to be in this situation.

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27 Aug 2015, 3:00 am

cheryll wrote:

I wouldn't even worry about it, it will happen when it happens. If it doesn't, that's not a bad thing either.

How is that a good thing?

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27 Aug 2015, 3:03 am

314pe wrote:

cheryll wrote:

I wouldn't even worry about it, it will happen when it happens. If it doesn't, that's not a bad thing either.

How is that a good thing?

I didn't say it's a good thing, I said it's not a bad thing. That means the be all and end all of life isn't to lose your virginity now is it? Or is it?

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27 Aug 2015, 3:10 am

cheryll wrote:

314pe wrote:

cheryll wrote:

I wouldn't even worry about it, it will happen when it happens. If it doesn't, that's not a bad thing either.

How is that a good thing?

I didn't say it's a good thing, I said it's not a bad thing. That means the be all and end all of life isn't to lose your virginity now is it? Or is it?

No, I agree that it's not important, but if we can't even do that then what chance do we have of accomplishing something important, like finding true love.

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27 Aug 2015, 3:31 am

No, I agree that it's not important, but if we can't even do that then what chance do we have of accomplishing something important, like finding true love.[/quote]

That's a tough question. In an ideal world, true love would come first, but it rarely seems to work out that way. I don't know what the OP's situation is but surely meeting someone first that you have feelings for and vice versa is the real issue? Once you've met someone and it's going great, then the sex bit will naturally happen. I would just advise against actively seeking to sleep with anyone for the sake of losing your virginity. Saying that, some people don't seem to care who they sleep with.

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27 Aug 2015, 6:14 am

cheryll wrote:

Deary me, some of the stuff I've just read... There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 27. I know a man who was until he was 35. Do I think it's odd? No, I think it's nice and refreshing that someone waited for the right person. People like that don't seem to come around very often so I think it's actually an attractive thing. I wouldn't even worry about it, it will happen when it happens. If it doesn't, that's not a bad thing either.

This is one reason, but would you think the same way if said person just never had the chance, no matter how hard he tried?

Indeed, waiting for the right person is admirable and rare, and far more rare than those who are virgins against their will and best efforts

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27 Aug 2015, 6:32 am

Isn't it weird? It's ok to just wait for the other person to appear, but if you actually put effort into it then you're a loser.

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27 Aug 2015, 9:20 am

izzeme wrote:

cheryll wrote:

Deary me, some of the stuff I've just read... There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 27. I know a man who was until he was 35. Do I think it's odd? No, I think it's nice and refreshing that someone waited for the right person. People like that don't seem to come around very often so I think it's actually an attractive thing. I wouldn't even worry about it, it will happen when it happens. If it doesn't, that's not a bad thing either.

Virgins against their will? Barf. As if anybody's entitled to sex.

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27 Aug 2015, 10:26 am

I am a member of the over 40 virgin club and it does not bother me at all. Sex is just not important to me, never has been. There have been offers for it by different women over the years, but they were not the right one for me, so I passed. Yes, I got a lot of grief from some of my close friends about this issue, as they wanted to be with those women but got shot down by them. These friends see me as not being human, let alone a man. So be it, they are entitled to have their opinions and likewise I can have mine. I feel that I have better things to do with my life than worry about getting/having sex before I die.

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27 Aug 2015, 11:17 am

Carlee wrote:

Virgins against their will? Barf. As if anybody's entitled to sex.

None said that they are entitled to it, frankly you are reading things that don't exist.

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27 Aug 2015, 3:50 pm

Am 26 yo virgin. I go out with work colleagues and sex seems to be all they talk about sometimes. Very frustrating as it seems like the only time I have people to hang out with I blatantly don't fit in with them anyway. I wish I was born normal sometimes.

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27 Aug 2015, 4:28 pm

cheryll wrote:

I really hate being told what is or is not a good or bad thing. To me, it is a very bad thing indeed. I wish I could trade my virginity and my inability to get sex with one of those people who got rid of theirs like most do, and have regular sex, but admire virginity in others. Well, you'd be so welcome to be the ones preserving your oh so admirable virginity while I have sex.

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27 Aug 2015, 6:03 pm

Peacesells wrote:

Carlee wrote:

Virgins against their will? Barf. As if anybody's entitled to sex.

None said that they are entitled to it, frankly you are reading things that don't exist.

Care to explain how a person can be a virgin against their will if they do not feel entitled to sex? Because, try as I might, I can't seem to.

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