Is she into me and what should I do?

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Sure. So far so good. Talked on a phone for half an hour while arranging today's meeting and chatting about things.

And I blew it again. She suddenly got irritated, zoned out, rejected all my ideas about places where we could continue (even though she asked for those ideas and then rejected them all) and left. That happened way before I could say what I feel towards her.

What do you mean by "continue"? Like places to hang out? It sounds like she has something going on emotionally that you are probably not aware of and is out of your control. I'd give her some space to deal with whatever she is going through right now and then approach her when she seems more emotionally stable. Definitely offer her emotional support if needed, but try not to take it personally if she declines. If there is anything I have learned this year, it's that everyone, whether they are neurodiverse or not, is going through something. She might also just need to hear that you care for her and have strong feelings and want to be there for her but is frustrated because she feels like no one is coming through for her in the way she would like.

A typical girl = Moody and crazy.

^ a typical misogynist = reductionist and flippant

^ A typical sensitive poster = boring.

I have yet to see a girl who doesn't behave in that way in the dating scheme.

Misogyny isn't gendered. Anyone can be misogynist. I expected more from a forum for people not considered to be neurotypical. It speaks loads to the hypocrisy of humans when people with disabilities are calling others crazy. Hey, why not label a whole gender or sex while you're at it? Oh wait, hundreds of people on this website already have. I guess I need to keep searching for like-minded, tolerant people elsewhere.

*Shrug* I would move on, OP. This girl seems all over the place and like she can't make up her mind.

Maybe try a second chance now because you will most likely regret it when its to late. You could, meaning you dont have to, maybe tell her about AS? Men nor Woman are perfect, but being pissed off about it will only set you back mentaly.

I will try again and I'm not pissed off about her at all. It wasn't her fault. That's why I said that it was me who blew it. I'm a little pissed off about myself but that's it.
I'm going to give her some space and wait for her to contact me first. But I don't expect anything out of this, I just don't want to loose a chance. Another girl messaged me on Whatsapp the moment I got into my car to go home from the "meeting". Unless she cancels, I'm meeting her and her friend today for an exhibition opening.

Good luck to you.

yes It seems that she really like you but not interested on further things.she was interested in travel with you and spend some time with her alone.