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Stargazer43
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16 Mar 2016, 4:58 pm

Everything in your post(s) comes across as super-intense and over the top. My advice would be to calm down, think of her only as a friend, and pursue other options. If she changes her mind further down the road: great, but I wouldn't count on it.



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16 Mar 2016, 11:02 pm

I honestly don't understand the concept of 'friendzone'. If I'm into someone, then I'm into someone, no matter how long it goes without it turning into a romantic relationship. I may lose interest, but not because one has become my friend. If anything, that's a good prospect, not a bad one.

In my humble opinion, she's not into you. Hasn't been, isn't, probably won't. Not saying you're not worth it, just that, well, it so happens that everyone has different interests. And, being an aspie, she's probably really saying what she thinks, not sending you hidden messages. Don't try to read too much into it.