Does she like me?

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I'm looking forward to finding out what happens next. Good luck!

The next lesson is tomorrow evening so you will probably find out soon how the "asking her out" thing works out.

Sorry for not writing in a while but i thought i would write again to see what you people think.

I went to the class inteding to ask her out afterward and it didn't pan out since she left after an hour or so later. Didn't appear next week, Neither did she the week after that, after that the teacher called her and whould try to convince her to come for the last lesson. When i came home later, i sent a friend request on facebook to her with a massage saying that we are missing her in the class and since she didn't report that she wouldn't attend we thought something had happened (which was something we actualy talked about) and that i had the bright idea to try making contact. She accepted the request but didn't answer until almost two weeks later saying that we were sweet for thinking about her and she would return to the last class. Why it took so long was because i sent the message before she accepted the request so she wasn't notified. The teacher was ill for a fel more weeks, we talked about that on facebook and eventualy the day came where the lesson was.

She came late but she came. Didn't notice she had turned up at first but we greeted each other, and I said that it was good she came this time.

We had some eye contact and talked a little, letting her try my straw hat i wore at the time. Afterwards i was outside checking my Phone and she was still inside talking to the teacher. Imediatly after she goes out we started to talk and walk. We came to the parking lot and she was talking quite freely it seemed to me. Before parting she mentioned that this was the last lesson and i casualy said that we can always meet again outside the course. She responded with a maybe before we split (in my Opinion an optimistic maybe).

I sent a message about what she likes doing, she wasn't responding so 2 days later i specified by asking if she would be down for Movie in the Cinema. She responded later that day, saying Sorry for the late response and that she was going to the Cinema with her Sister and suggested that we should instead have a walk in the city some day so we could talk some more. I accepted her suggestion and asked when is a good time for her. She doesn't know but thinks it worth to ponder on. I suggested some time over the next week, she says it sounds good and that she should have some time over after tuesday. I suggested thursday or friday, waited for a response for a couple of days before writing saying that the weekend is a better time. She finally responded today saying she has to think about it all and that she has extremely much to think about over the weekend. I responded asking what she has to think about and hope that it turn out well for her in either case. A couple of hours later i added that if it doesn't happen during the weekend, we always have other chanses.

What should be my next move?

I'm sorry but it sounds to me like she is putting you off. I hope you find somebody else more worthy of your attentions.

Just give her new possible times, but take it slow. Let her respond before you send new suggestions.

You could also use Facebook to let her know you better, like posting about your interests.

Does she drive? If not, you could offer her a lift. Unless she lives in the opposite direction to where you live, as you don't want to appear desperate.

She recently got her drivers license and i haven't started taken any lessons yet. And she is a couple of years older than me so i doubt she would have a problem with that.

Here is an update along with a question at the end.

i suggested a date like one of you said and she after a few days she responded, apologisin for a late response and that she is going through tough times and does't want to meet anyone for a while. I responded saying, That i'm sorry to hear it, and if she feels that she wants to talk about it, feel free to tell me and I'm fine thank you and that I will on Sunday travel to a Film School and will stay there for a week, if she sends a message in that time and I don't answer, that is why. Hope your tough times are behind you soon and you feel well enough to want to meet someone again.

She wrote later that she does not want to burden me with her troubles even if she wants to talk about it, it wouldn't be very nice to me. Film School sounds fantastic fun. What is it for adventure you have jumped on?

I wrote to her that It's okay , I can take it so don't be afraid of that. I told her what the camp was all about and that It's fun so far and would return a couple of weeks later for a deepening.

She wrote back later that it sounds fantastic and she hopes that i learn much and get to experience cool and healthy stuff and asks if Filmmaking/movie acting is something i dream of working with? Go for it!

i wrote back saying: Yes mainly filmmaking with acting something im training in to be a better director to actors.I ask her if she has dreams and stuff she dreams of doing.

She says: Sounds exciting, it sounds like you have done this before, have you ever experienced this? Yes! Absolutely . My childhood dream has always been to be on stage and sing a really nice ballad, love song. She goes on listing a bunch of stuff such as acrobatics, martial arts, ice dancing , western riding / riding without a saddle and bridle , stunts , movie actors as well, etc and that she has always been much of a theatremonkey deep down, so everything in the creative field really. She realized that life is too short to not be lived, but to follow her dreams, so now she tries to do as much as possible of what she think is fun in the form of courses and more.

I wrote back telling her about my interest in movies and has done some of my own work and writing, i tell her that what she listed is a lot and that i can assume that was why she were at that theatre class and asked how much of that she listed has she started on or is getting better at. I also wrote that i would love to hear her sing sometime and that my youngre sisters love horses and are learning to ride horses. i told her that she has a very encouraging attitude and it's roughly the same thought I had when I started writing for myself and look for courses.

She writes: I understand. Kudos to you! Yes, it was partly so, and to tear down some blockages. The song is that I have come the furthest with, got a job in the musical Flashdance this spring, so something must be in there. And she was riding in ridingschool as a kid. How nice! Have you tried to ride yourself sometime?
My next project is an intensive course in Western riding. It will be really fun

I replied: You have gotten a role on Flashdance! Congratulations! What's the job, it is a role in the musical ? When can anyone see it? Yes I have tried to ride some time but I had no talent. Good luck with the riding too.

My question is...
Is she still interested in me? (romanticly speaking)
What should i do next?

Don't know if this is significant but she usually have a lot of emojis in her texts (about 2 to 3 per text).
And her texts have gotten really long and mine too when responding.

No, she placed you in the friendzone. Forget the romance part.

Yeah probably time to heal and move on.

^ in my experience, first rejection = always rejection.
No matter how better and long you know the person between the first and last attempt.

So i was rejected in the beginning of my last post?

How can you be sure?

You have a lot to write about her, but she has very little to say to you or about your interactions.
She flakes on you, for reasons likely to change.

I've been that guy. I know.

What do you mean with "she has very little to say to you or about your interactions."

^ Life...