Dating when you come across as childlike

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DevilKisses
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10 May 2016, 8:39 pm

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Is your Tinder set to show you men too or just women?

You continually claim you're annoyed by it but I remember you mentioned you have a test profile to see what types you attract?

Why not just a genuine real profile and of course, setting it as Homosexual.

I'm not sure how dating sites all work but can straight males still message you on OkCupid or whatever if you're set as gay?

Bummer. :|

On tinder I have it set only to women. Men occasionally pop up on my matches, but I just swipe left and never see them again. On my test profile I don't care too much about attracting guys.

I'm just upset that I attract the wrong guys. I definitely notice a change in the type of men I attract depending on my profile picture. When it's pictures of me with blue hair I attract basement dwellers and geeks. When more of my natural hair color shows I attract generic bros and foreigners. On my gay profile I got a lot of profile views and a few messages from straight guys.


yo I never knew that changing the color of your hair attract different types of people. That pretty f*cking interesting. Awesome kind of lol

It does. Especially when I change from natural to unnatural. Right now I have a lot of roots, so I'm treated more like a brunette.


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10 May 2016, 8:51 pm

DevilKisses wrote:
Gematron wrote:
DevilKisses wrote:
Outrider wrote:
Is your Tinder set to show you men too or just women?

You continually claim you're annoyed by it but I remember you mentioned you have a test profile to see what types you attract?

Why not just a genuine real profile and of course, setting it as Homosexual.

I'm not sure how dating sites all work but can straight males still message you on OkCupid or whatever if you're set as gay?

Bummer. :|

On tinder I have it set only to women. Men occasionally pop up on my matches, but I just swipe left and never see them again. On my test profile I don't care too much about attracting guys.

I'm just upset that I attract the wrong guys. I definitely notice a change in the type of men I attract depending on my profile picture. When it's pictures of me with blue hair I attract basement dwellers and geeks. When more of my natural hair color shows I attract generic bros and foreigners. On my gay profile I got a lot of profile views and a few messages from straight guys.


yo I never knew that changing the color of your hair attract different types of people. That pretty f*cking interesting. Awesome kind of lol

It does. Especially when I change from natural to unnatural. Right now I have a lot of roots, so I'm treated more like a brunette.


That's pretty cool. I'm thinking about dying the tips of my hair to like a light brown or a auburn color ( I think thats what the color I'm thinking of is called) I wonder what type of people I'll attract on my profile when I do that lol



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10 May 2016, 9:04 pm

Outrider wrote:
Is your Tinder set to show you men too or just women?

You continually claim you're annoyed by it but I remember you mentioned you have a test profile to see what types you attract?

Why not just a genuine real profile and of course, setting it as Homosexual.

I'm not sure how dating sites all work but can straight males still message you on OkCupid or whatever if you're set as gay?

Bummer. :|


If set to guy straight men can't even see their profiles. I knew a girl who is gay and she had to change her profile to bi for me to see it and give her advice.



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10 May 2016, 9:06 pm

So sorry we lowly worthless crap guys dare think we stand any chance with women.