Weird and confusing thing on schooltrip.

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Well, after composing all of the opinions here + the ones from the best friends of Chloé, i've come to a decision.
My best friend (who is male) told me that she did the same to him when he still was single.
It's just a flirt with someone she's comfortable with.
That happens to be me because i expressed a certain care over her when she fainted.
And because i didn't mind the closeness and was nice to her, she took it as a sign that i didn't mind the whole picture.

Good insight here.

Things went like usual at school.
She still likes to give me long hugs.

And i got yet another opinion on the subject.
This time from my 2 female autism guides. (We have a local autism-meeting with 5 autistics and 2 psychologists)
They were almost 100% sure she has something for me.
They implied the small kiss on my wrist meant something.

I'm f*****g confused again now.

Last edited by AdrianB on 11 May 2007, 8:05 pm, edited 2 times in total.

welcome to the world of romance mate.

I would just interject a caution based on something that happened to me when I was a student. If she's really breaking up with her boyfriend, you run the risk of being the man there to catch her falling. Love on the rebound. Seldom a stable foundation for a long-term relationship, and one which can get you very hurt if you're not aware. I wasn't. Took a LONG time to recover from. Of course, that may not at all be what's happening here, but just keep your eyes open. Good luck!

I never understand the gripe about this. Most females
seem to either be in a relationship (and they gripe about stealing
someone away then) or in a very brief period between such states.
And, if they are avoiding one for longer, it's usually (as is the case
with me) a matter of still bearing a torch for a failed relationship.
Rules like this will make just about anyone ineligible.

hmm. rebound. Hmm.

Oh yeah, don't we all know it.

after my first girlfriend dumped me, I went after this girl and my parents suspected me of going after her only as a rebound, even if she was a sophmore and I was a senior, and my intentions.....hehe.....were completly honorable(well slightly, but this girl had done some things with girls, she was bi at the time and then went lesbian and no I wasn't the cause for her to go Lesbian) we actually sorta ended up together(I think.........)but it nere worked out.

I finally have a near 100% sureness in my conclusion.
She doesn't mean anything relational by it.

We're going with several friends to the movies and a lot of us go by metro.
I asked Chloé if i should go pick her up (with the excuse that she may faint on the metro or something) and she said she'll drag her boyfriend with her.
That makes it very clear for me!

Well, a least you can rest easy on that one.

Nevertheless, I still find this whole "ordeal" touching. Even if it is a phantom thing--for Chloé, anyway--it's still touching.

"THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA IS HERE..............AGAIN.............Opps, sorry, wrong reality."

People like that are the arch-enemies of us with AS. Selfish.

The moral imperative of the selfishness of America, is not the moral imperative, but the oportune power that they use at that given time. It is the choice of the victim as to whether or not they choose to let that power be used against them.

How so?

I don't know. its different for each person.

Depends how easy you are to suckered into things.