Can women detect a guy with no standards?

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It seems like a lot of guys like that agree with everything you say. I feel put off by it because it either seems like they aren't being genuine or they don't have any opinions of their own. I don't want to be with someone if the only reason they are interested is because they area lonely. I was in a ldr with someone before who seemed desperate and I didn't really feel like I could trust them. It seems like those are usually the only kind that show interest in me though.

ya, women subsoncisouly throw shit-tests at men all the time, here is an example i got from an article:

"Unfortunately, most guys emotions DO NOT act in their 
best interest when it comes to getting a girl (especially 
when you really like her)

You’re emotions cause all kinds of mischief like making
 you act insecure, needy, clingy, and predictable…

All
 things that MURDER attraction.

The reality is that when these “emotions” take over… it’s like it disengages your logical brain. And you 
start doing all the things you know you SHOULD NOT 
be doing…

- feeling a compulsion to call or text her

- Unable to “play it cool”

- blurting out your feelings too soon

- making yourself too available

- showing noticeable jealousy when she mentions other guys

- showing too much disappointment when she can’t hang out

.

Here’s the worse part…

She is going to TEST YOU to see how “needy” she can make
 you… (she does this subconsciously of course)

It’s her 
way of screening out weak guys.

She’ll cancel plans and pay close attention to how
 you react…

She’ll “forget” to text or call you back to see how you handle 
it…

She’ll challenge you on stuff to see how quickly you
back down…

Here’s a very simple example of a “test”…

If you’re
 listening to a certain type of music that you like she might say…

”Do you like that?” in a tone that expresses that she definitely 
doesn’t.

How do you respond? Do you lie and say “not really”? Or 
”It’s OK”

If so, you’re TRYING HARDER. And the pendulum of power is 
tipped in HER favor.