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26 May 2007, 9:17 am

Since most people look the same to me, what people “say” is far more physically “attractive” to me..., though I do find myself intrigued with people who have “interesting” facial expressions and who aren't afraid to uh...show them when I look at them or in those rare occasions when I actually talk. I suppose I can read said people much better than those who’re deemed “beautiful” by the multitudes in the mostly moronic mass media due to my mad mind.

Unfortunately, a lot of people "out there" don't say what they really mean due to the natural fear of being judged.

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26 May 2007, 1:08 pm

Danielismyname wrote:

I do find myself intrigued with people who have “interesting” facial expressions and who aren't afraid to uh...show them when I look at them or in those rare occasions when I actually talk. I suppose I can read said people much better than those who’re deemed “beautiful” by the multitudes in the mostly moronic mass media due to my mad mind.

Me too. I'm actually uncomfortable around good-looking girls. Just their presence in my field of vision makes the whole situation feel hostile. I'm much more comfortable around average or plain-looking girls.

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26 May 2007, 5:00 pm

Here's what I find attractive...
Physically:
-Big eyes
-Shoulder-length hair
-Pale
-A few brown freckles on the cheeks

Mentally:
-Smart
-Assertive

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26 May 2007, 5:07 pm

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Here's what I find attractive...
Physically:
-Big eyes
-Shoulder-length hair
-Pale
-A few brown freckles on the cheeks

Mentally:
-Smart
-Assertive

And would you turn down someone who had those mental qualities but not exactly any of the physical ones? I wouldnt.

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26 May 2007, 5:09 pm

If I wasn't both physically and mentally attracted to someone then I wouldn't be interested.

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26 May 2007, 5:10 pm

Sopho wrote:

If I wasn't both physically and mentally attracted to someone then I wouldn't be interested.

What if they had the mental ones but none of physical ones and asked to date you?

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26 May 2007, 5:12 pm

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

If I wasn't both physically and mentally attracted to someone then I wouldn't be interested.

What if they had the mental ones but none of physical ones and asked to date you?

I have had that happen before and I declined. If I only like them emotionally, then I would just be friends with them - I'd see no reason to have any other kind of relationship with them.

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26 May 2007, 5:19 pm

Sopho wrote:

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

If I wasn't both physically and mentally attracted to someone then I wouldn't be interested.

What if they had the mental ones but none of physical ones and asked to date you?

I have had that happen before and I declined. If I only like them emotionally, then I would just be friends with them - I'd see no reason to have any other kind of relationship with them.

If for no other reason than to have a lifelong companion so you dont feel lonely anymore.

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26 May 2007, 5:20 pm

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

If I wasn't both physically and mentally attracted to someone then I wouldn't be interested.

What if they had the mental ones but none of physical ones and asked to date you?

I have had that happen before and I declined. If I only like them emotionally, then I would just be friends with them - I'd see no reason to have any other kind of relationship with them.

If for no other reason than to have a lifelong companion so you dont feel lonely anymore.

I wouldn't want to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone though. There are only two people I like right now - I would be happy with them, but they wouldn't want me. And other than that, I'd rather be single. I'm happier alone than with someone else.

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26 May 2007, 5:21 pm

Santa_Claus wrote:

Cyanide wrote:

Here's what I find attractive...
Physically:
-Big eyes
-Shoulder-length hair
-Pale
-A few brown freckles on the cheeks

Mentally:
-Smart
-Assertive

And would you turn down someone who had those mental qualities but not exactly any of the physical ones? I wouldnt.

No I wouldn't. There are girls without some of those that I find attractive. That's just what I find REALLY attractive.

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26 May 2007, 5:31 pm

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

If I wasn't both physically and mentally attracted to someone then I wouldn't be interested.

What if they had the mental ones but none of physical ones and asked to date you?

I have had that happen before and I declined. If I only like them emotionally, then I would just be friends with them - I'd see no reason to have any other kind of relationship with them.

If for no other reason than to have a lifelong companion so you dont feel lonely anymore.

One can create their own companion, once strong enough.

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26 May 2007, 5:32 pm

Sopho wrote:

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

Santa_Claus wrote:

Sopho wrote:

If I wasn't both physically and mentally attracted to someone then I wouldn't be interested.

What if they had the mental ones but none of physical ones and asked to date you?

I have had that happen before and I declined. If I only like them emotionally, then I would just be friends with them - I'd see no reason to have any other kind of relationship with them.

If for no other reason than to have a lifelong companion so you dont feel lonely anymore.

There are girls in this world that would definantly want to be with you, believe me. Its a big world and not all women are into the exact same thing so I am 100% for sure if you keep looking you'll find someone who wants to be with you. 100% for sure.

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26 May 2007, 5:35 pm

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I doubt it. I'm not looking for anyone at the moment. The only people I like don't like me.

And I'm not interested in anyone else.

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26 May 2007, 5:35 pm

Sopho wrote:

I wouldn't want to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone though. There are only two people I like right now - I would be happy with them, but they wouldn't want me. And other than that, I'd rather be single. I'm happier alone than with someone else.

You know, you don't even know this. Sometimes, what you think you
want isn't half as good as you believe. I'd pull back on some of your
restrictions, and explore a little bit.

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26 May 2007, 5:38 pm

calandale wrote:

Sopho wrote:

You know, you don't even know this. Sometimes, what you think you
want isn't half as good as you believe. I'd pull back on some of your
restrictions, and explore a little bit.

I mean I'd be happy if they liked me back. I don't know whether I'd end up liking them once I was with them though. But I never like people if I go round looking for someone. I always just either like someone or I don't. It just happens randomly. So I don't go round looking for girls who fit the right description. I just end up liking ones that do. Without realising it.

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26 May 2007, 5:39 pm

Sopho wrote:

The only people I like don't like me.

And I'm not interested in anyone else.

Prehaps you shouldnt be seeking super models :roll:

Seriously narrow your standards because almost no one gets people with super high standards and the people who do are almost never happy with eachother.

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