Blocked by crush, what did I do wrong?

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07 Oct 2017, 10:20 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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As a rule of thumb, if a girl doesn't initiate texting with you like every couple of days; then she is not interested. Never.

A rule of thumb#2:

People are never interested to develop friendship with the opposite sex just for the "sake of friendship". And that goes both ways.
Friendships between the opposite sex happen occasionally and by pure chance, like being a friend of a friend, or being in the same activity group and so; but usually people won't go out of their way to build or even to *maintain* friendship with people of the opposite sex (and usually not even with the same sex).

Knowing that, never ever expect that a girl would pull out her phone, open her FB or any chat app, to scroll her contact list searching for your name and tap on your picture to send you a Hello to you just....for the "sake of friendship".

It doesn't happen like that.

She rejected you because she is not into you, and she blocked you because you are a guy, who is not a romance interest for her, and therefore she is not interested to develop friendship with you.



This is true. If they don't make an effort, more than likely they aren't interested.