This is what some women think about when they date you

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You are trolling; either you stay on topic or leave and report those posts you claim I have to a mod.

Thank you; I find it incredibly insulting--and wrong--for men to promote/believe the idea that women care so much about bling and money. Yes, people are animals (and I actually think that's not a bad thing), but we're also complex. I don't think that most people are so hyper-focused on, say, just sex, just money, and so on, but those who are usually end up with similarly shallow people, so it often works its way out.

It's been a long time since I dated, but I do know that if you're too blind to a mate's potentially hazardous flaws, you're in for trouble, but if you're too busy looking for what's wrong and making too much of their imperfections, you could really miss out on a great thing. For example: my husband was rather awkward-looking when we first started dating (he's grown out of it), but he's also incredibly decent, loving, funny, intelligent, and in so many other ways, amazing. I wasn't dating other guys for superficial reasons, and I wasn't picking jerks and losers, but none of them can compare to him at all. I'll be forever grateful that I saw him clearly and pity those who pick mates and dates for all the wrong reasons.

BTW: if you want to carry suspicion and resentment towards the opposite sex as you work your way through the dating process, go right ahead, but know this: a smart person will pick up on that, sooner or later, and either reciprocate that ugliness or dump you!

oh DO get over yourself, only a halfwit would suggest "trolling"...suggest you look up the definition...she's calling you out. there is a distinction.

as for this thread and being on topic. were i the type to report. i would have. setting aside the fact that you posted a private conversation without the consent of the other party...it could be suggested that it was designed to bait, tho i'm sure you'd never do something that puerile

Calling me out, eh? I challenge you and Swealeaf to find those posts, and quote them here.

So now you are ganging against me, I am talking about a real problem that many men face with some women, it is real and very common, and you all take it personal as if it's addressed at you. ( Obviously I wouldn't include my current partner in that category either )

it's obvious that for boofle, Sweeleaf, ltcvnzl and KimD; you lot don't even stand it to hear men talk about bad experiences with some women.
You say it's generalization, but the keywords 'some' obviously doesn't even work to convince you that it's not.