Boyfriend won't make an effort

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Chronos
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10 Aug 2017, 6:06 am

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You're right Sly, most people are lazy and dysfunctional with their home when single, and most people become much less lazy when in love.

The OPs boyfriend honestly isn't that much more lazy than the average single male in his early to late 20s.

Its amazing how lazy and disgusting single.men ad women can get and I find it disgusting people actually encourage it, with young women making jokes about how being single = dont have to shave legs or armpits, can leave uncleaned dildo and used tampons lying around their apartment, don't have to use deodorant anymore.

F*cking disgusting.

Single men are no better, telling me about how they can leave socks or shirts with their c*m lying around and stuff.

Especially so many of the of the in my family.

Their houses are dirty and disgusting even when they're in a relationship. Dust everywhere, no rubbish bins, not even any handwash or bar of soap in the bathroom, horrible amount of dirty clothes lying around on the floor, etc. Yet they all get reldtiondhips easily while i live in the cleanest house in the whole family thanks to me and my parents.

Well people don't talk to me about such things, but I've noticed women's bathrooms tend to be messy with makeup and hair products all over. My sisters is spreading into my and moms bathroom too no. My stuff I keep in a box in my room and get it out when I shave. I rinse my bath soap and shampoo bar off after I shower.


I'm a wake up, shower, and brush teeth, hair and leave type of person, but most women feel a need to conform to social pressures that they look in a particular, aesthetically pleasing manner, so they may have a collection of beauty products they implement to achieve what they consider a socially acceptable look.



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10 Aug 2017, 9:09 am

Chronos wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Outrider wrote:
You're right Sly, most people are lazy and dysfunctional with their home when single, and most people become much less lazy when in love.

The OPs boyfriend honestly isn't that much more lazy than the average single male in his early to late 20s.

Its amazing how lazy and disgusting single.men ad women can get and I find it disgusting people actually encourage it, with young women making jokes about how being single = dont have to shave legs or armpits, can leave uncleaned dildo and used tampons lying around their apartment, don't have to use deodorant anymore.

F*cking disgusting.

Single men are no better, telling me about how they can leave socks or shirts with their c*m lying around and stuff.

Especially so many of the of the in my family.

Their houses are dirty and disgusting even when they're in a relationship. Dust everywhere, no rubbish bins, not even any handwash or bar of soap in the bathroom, horrible amount of dirty clothes lying around on the floor, etc. Yet they all get reldtiondhips easily while i live in the cleanest house in the whole family thanks to me and my parents.

Well people don't talk to me about such things, but I've noticed women's bathrooms tend to be messy with makeup and hair products all over. My sisters is spreading into my and moms bathroom too no. My stuff I keep in a box in my room and get it out when I shave. I rinse my bath soap and shampoo bar off after I shower.


I'm a wake up, shower, and brush teeth, hair and leave type of person, but most women feel a need to conform to social pressures that they look in a particular, aesthetically pleasing manner, so they may have a collection of beauty products they implement to achieve what they consider a socially acceptable look.

I understand that but doesn't mean they have to leave them everywhere half open and on their sides. Recap and back on shelf or under the sink. It's like people leaving the cap off the toothpaste



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10 Aug 2017, 5:13 pm

I have a beard from 11 days locked in a hospital writing algorithms. Death also visited my friends' families this week. Rough times. My work gets called my disability.

We should be proud of ourselves for individual reasons rather than nitpicking on our differences.


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10 Aug 2017, 6:21 pm

You've never heard the song Dumpster Love? Me and that trash girl, making that dumpster love


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10 Aug 2017, 7:58 pm

jrjones9933 wrote:
You've never heard the song Dumpster Love? Me and that trash girl, making that dumpster love

Nope