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25 Oct 2017, 6:56 pm

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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN

If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".

No it doesn’t. All women mean every single woman, some women , means a minority or few women, women is less then all women more then 1 woman.

Maybe not in your mind.
Same as people say, "Autistic people are ret*d."
People with milder autism are still going to get upset over that, even if they are not actually ret*d, because it's a generalisation.

Cause of the ret*d. If they said autisric people are mentally challenged I doubt it’d get as much a backfire.retared is like the n world, it’s a insulting derogatory term.

So a more similar situation would be saying women are b***hes or women are c***s
It’s not ok to call any woman the b or c world or call autiscifcs the r world or African Americans the n word regardless of if you talking about just one.

Autistic people are mentally challenged, then.
Are they still going to get upset?

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25 Oct 2017, 7:01 pm

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I don’t think we should bash fellow aspies for not using a defining world before a noun.
Leave that to nts

What does being Aspie or NT have to do with it?

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25 Oct 2017, 7:05 pm

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This page includes examples of generalizations that don't use the word "all": http://examples.yourdictionary.com/exam ... ation.html

A lot of them did in particular the examples evolving men and women, it either used all women/men _______. or women/men all want _______.

I don’t think we should bash fellow aspies for not using a defining world before a noun.
Leave that to nts

It's important to define things properly when talking to Aspies, since we're known for taking things literally.
There's someone here who writes, "Precious lil people", and I include myself in that because I'm a person, so I must be "precious lil people" too.

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25 Oct 2017, 7:09 pm

People really only hook up with other people who don't have their lives together in their teens and early 20s. Hardly anyone in that group will have gotten their lives together, so that limits their options.

People who consciously intend to get their lives together will usually seek out partners with that same plan. Other people just keep doing the next reasonable thing and hook up with a random slacker or two. They learn.

Sly, not just most women, but most men want to find a partner who independently has their life pretty well together. Most people don't want to adopt an adult child. Yes, part of a relationship involves putting up with your partner's foibles, but after a few tries most people decide that they should find someone who annoys them as little as possible.

Statistically, most arguments within couples involve either the kids or the budget. Why set yourself up with someone who can't finance their own life and guarantee that those arguments start immediately? I'm sure some people exist who will do so, and a few of those even have good motives.

There's always love at first sight, crazy love that ignores good sense.

Raleigh, I've called Sly out a few times for posting blatant falsehoods, and clearly failing any basic duty to maintain truthfulness in what he posts. I'm giving up. I haven't seen any improvement, maybe it's deliberate, and other people with good sense should already have figured out to check for themselves.

ETA: Just now, in another thread,

Sly wrote:

Why are the millions who’d might die from cuts more import then the millions who’d died in raids under Obama’s excutive order? Bigger picture is without the 2nd amendment and bill of rights no one would be safe.

I bet you didn't know Obama had killed millions by executive order.

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25 Oct 2017, 7:50 pm

Raleigh wrote:

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This page includes examples of generalizations that don't use the word "all": http://examples.yourdictionary.com/exam ... ation.html

Well many of us aspies won’t be able to constantly properly define stuf aka be politically correct.i can’t.
I don’t habe the time, memory or attention spans to constantly add some defining facts like drug companies do in every commercial.
I try but I can’t and don’t do it every time. It’s too much for me, I forget. I’m only really able to be in here when on bus and replies as is can take 40 mins for me to type out without adding defining words to every word in every sentence.

Also why don’t yiu go after women who come and say men did this men did that, men used me, men only want this. Women seem to get a pass why men here get constantly bashed for it. I’m Doug the freaking best I can. So tired of being bashed. So tired of this world. Never enough no matter how hard o try to conform to everyone’s demands.

You all could just be like oh it’s sly he’s pointed out bunch of times he doesn’t mean every woman so I know he doesn’t mean every woman.

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25 Oct 2017, 7:59 pm

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I bet you didn't know Obama had killed millions by executive order.

Whys it ok for you to say it but when I say the same stuff yiu bash me and say it’s not true, no women care about men’s income yiu all say.

I can and do finance my self, I just can’t afford a house, nice car, vacations to Europe or to eat out at expensive restroom every week. You all ack like there’s only two options you’re either well off or you a mooch who can’t pay his own bills. That’s not reality lots of men aren’t well off but they aren’t mooches either. They work hard, they just don’t make a lot.

Obama excutive order thankfully got stopped by congress and trump.

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25 Oct 2017, 8:02 pm

I doubt that politics have anything to do with your chances of getting a girlfriend.

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25 Oct 2017, 8:04 pm

If I was a girl I would not want to shag sly, he's a nasty trumpeter.

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25 Oct 2017, 8:09 pm

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I doubt that politics have anything to do with your chances of getting a girlfriend.

Well they certainly do with some women there a lot of if you voted for trump don’t bother people, and I’d not get along with feminists on the extreme side or anti gunner. But there’s a lot between anti gun and pro gun I’m sure I’d get fine with.
But that’s not as many people who wouldn’t date me for that but there’s a lot of super picky single women here who demand guyanwith their life together. It’s most of the single women if not all of them. I dont know if that’s has something to do with the 3,000 surplus men or not. Or if it’s west coast society or due to being a university city. I dont know. My city is and was a logging town. Eugene is the liberal hippy university city and I think 3/4th largest population city in Oregon, our two city’s are really practical one though. I can’t help how women are here. I just share my experience which makes me depressed since I can’t get a better job. I won’t ever be a real man or have my life together according to theirs and society’s standards.

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25 Oct 2017, 8:09 pm

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If I was a girl I would not want to shag sly, he's a nasty trumpeter.

I supported gore in 2000. Last democrat I could get behind sadly

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25 Oct 2017, 8:12 pm

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If I was a girl I would not want to shag sly, he's a nasty trumpeter.

I supported gore in 2000. Last democrat I could get behind sadly

I was just being sarcastic.
Politics doesn't matter where the heart is concerned.

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25 Oct 2017, 8:21 pm

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If I was a girl I would not want to shag sly, he's a nasty trumpeter.

I supported gore in 2000. Last democrat I could get behind sadly

I was just being sarcastic.
Politics doesn't matter where the heart is concerned.

I dont know the country is so bitterly divided. People hate me just cause of who I voted for. I don’t hate people who voted for obama I didn’t like obama and hated his policies.
I’d date a person who voted for him though.

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25 Oct 2017, 10:24 pm

Where do you actually live? Does your town have 10 people in it? Because the assumption based on the people in your town has seemed to come from 4 people and a WP member.

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25 Oct 2017, 10:43 pm

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Where do you actually live? Does your town have 10 people in it? Because the assumption based on the people in your town has seemed to come from 4 people and a WP member.

Huh? How could my city have 4 people if it has 3,000ish more men then women in it lol

The two city’s have a combined population of 228,558. My city having 61,893 of it.
My city is more country due to being a logging community and black city from what I heard. The city next to us was a sundown city and use to burn crosses on the hill. Our state once had a kkk governor.
Our biggest city 2 1/2 hours by car away Portland has 639,863. So apparently the city next to us is the 2nd biggest city. I thought Salem or Corvallis had more. Oregon has only 4million people in it. So less then half the population of New York City in a big state. Something like 58% of our state is federally owned national forest. Pretty closely split republicans and democrat by the last election. There’s like 3-4 left leaning strong hold cities with the rest stat mostly right leaning.
But given I take the bus my area is limited to just the two cities and even then limited to probably 1/5 of this cities as the bus doesn’t go most places anymore.

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25 Oct 2017, 10:47 pm

Sly you see this? This is how you should talk to your dates. This right here, and not anything else. I know it doesn't seem like much, but carrying on a conversation is what gets people together and connected.

(Halebopp sorry for making you awkward and no I'm not implying anything with you and him. I'm trying to get Sly to see something).

Sly, you just have to throw yourself out there.

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25 Oct 2017, 11:29 pm

ZachGoodwin wrote:

I do good on dates. My problem is I can’t get any cause no woman will give me a chance.
I can’t even message most women as I don’t meet their requirements of a real man.

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