Dear Men: Stop being needy

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The OP is of course basically right, though I don't agree with everything he said.

The problem with Asperger's people, I guess, is the inability to see that because one feels something, one needn't express it. Some feelings (including neediness) are better kept to oneself.

when he had like five years left in his life anyway.

he's lived it all, the damage is done, it's hardly justice.

Basically you're suggesting that we should ignore any & all feelings if someone else may disagree with them. I think it's better to be upfront about everything & worry about petty disagreements later.

Most of us have already tried being total doormats. It doesn't work.

Whining about people's needs is like whining about us breathing.

Also don't word this like a cordial letter when you're just here to insult us. Sassy doesn't become you.

Since this post is negative and borderline sexist, I'm closing it. Before anyone accuses me of bias, I've been bogged down recently with school and work.

Let's all work on being less sh_tty.

Thanks.