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14 Jun 2019, 6:43 pm

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14 Jun 2019, 6:47 pm

Someone who won’t mind taking care of any big bug that might get into the house. This is very high up on my list of priorities.


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14 Jun 2019, 7:32 pm

Someone who saves the last scoop of ice cream for me


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15 Jun 2019, 6:40 am

Someone who likes trains.... :D Or rather, does not mind me liking them.


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15 Jun 2019, 6:42 am

Someone who can shave me in the late evening....instead of me having to shave in the morning.



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15 Jun 2019, 8:31 pm

Something that concerns me is that I tend to be more inclined to run if a lady is attracted to me, even though I maybe very attracted to her. The problem is I would love to go on a date in many cases but am sometimes too nurvous to do so. So maybe the lady has to make sure I don't run if she wants to date me. Umm. A difficult one! Though some I may run from because they seem a bit too forward... Umm. A dificult one!


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16 Jun 2019, 3:08 am

Mountain Goat wrote:
Something that concerns me is that I tend to be more inclined to run if a lady is attracted to me, even though I maybe very attracted to her. The problem is I would love to go on a date in many cases but am sometimes too nurvous to do so. So maybe the lady has to make sure I don't run if she wants to date me. Umm. A difficult one! Though some I may run from because they seem a bit too forward... Umm. A dificult one!
I've been nervous but that was cuz I was afraid I'd screw things up & she'd run away 1ce she gotten to know me. Women had to be forward with me because I'm too straightforward & direct to get flirting or that playing hard-to-get cr@p. It's one of the reasons I'm much better off in a realtionship with another Aspie.


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16 Jun 2019, 11:05 am

Someone who keeps me warm when it's cold outside


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16 Jun 2019, 12:35 pm

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16 Jun 2019, 12:38 pm

Someone who wants to be by my side.


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24 Jun 2019, 1:49 am

Someone who is physically attractive (I know that sounds shallow but it's important to me).


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25 Jun 2019, 6:34 am

Someone who doesn't want my money



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26 Jun 2019, 9:57 pm

Someone who loves animals (particularly cats). Ideally, it would be a man who has grown up with animals all his life, as I have, and has learned to be responsible about taking care of them.

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27 Jun 2019, 2:21 am

-minimal or non-drinker / non-smoker / no drug abuse (meds prescribed by a professional for a medical or psychological condition are obviously exempted)
-fine with taking things slowly at first
-has similar interests to me
-is at least somewhat musically competent & can sing or play an instrument
-understands when I need time to myself
-not uptight
-easy to make conversation with
-doesn't need to wear a huge amount of make-up to think she's pretty (imo most women are more beautiful with minimal/no make-up anyway)
-will accept me for who I am
-the less religious, the better
-autistic!


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01 Jul 2019, 7:50 pm

My son's new girlfriend is also an Aspie and they've agreed to talk EVERYTHING out, never holding back. For him I think that has been a huge deal maker.

That and the fact she loves all the same geeky activities that he does.

I think he's been really lucky. Hope it sticks.


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01 Jul 2019, 7:52 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
Doesn't matter how many "dealmakers"

One deal breaker and it's all over


The funny thing I've observed is that a lot of things people think would be deal breakers, stop being deal breakers when they find the "right" person. Depends on what the deal breaker is.


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