03 Jun 2020, 12:55 am
Why’d it be filled up?
She is a hottie.
The_Face_of_Boo
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03 Jun 2020, 1:43 am
03 Jun 2020, 2:11 am
Why’d it be filled up?
She is a hottie.
Most us single men here know we don’t stand a chance
03 Jun 2020, 5:47 am
Why’d it be filled up?
She is a hottie.
Most us single men here know we don’t stand a chance
So why the full inbox?
Nooooo!
You're not suggesting?...
Well, I hadn't considered there were that many women, who liked women, on this website.
I see what you are saying, now.
Ahhhh.
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03 Jun 2020, 6:21 am
Why’d it be filled up?
She is a hottie.
Most us single men here know we don’t stand a chance
So why the full inbox?
Nooooo!
You're not suggesting?...
Well, I hadn't considered there were that many women, who liked women, on this website.
I see what you are saying, now.
Ahhhh.
They're filling it with "advice" and helpful "materials".
03 Jun 2020, 7:08 am
Why’d it be filled up?
She is a hottie.
Most us single men here know we don’t stand a chance
So why the full inbox?
Nooooo!
You're not suggesting?...
Well, I hadn't considered there were that many women, who liked women, on this website.
I see what you are saying, now.
Ahhhh.
They're filling it with "advice" and helpful "materials".
Oh.
I was thinking in a different direction.
My bad.
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03 Jun 2020, 1:42 pm
In my particular case, I realized that I wasn't flirting at all when I liked someone.
Me personally, I read about a bunch of flirting styles, and picked some I was comfortable with.
Next time I hung out with someone I liked, I practiced some of the flirts (for me, it was "footsies") and surprisingly the guy responded (moving his foot closer to mine as well, etc).
It could be arm touches, "playful swatting," mostly anything subtle and physical. Most guys will realize that you like them and either respond or distance (depending on how they feel about you).
In my particular experience, this was my largest dating faux pas that I worked to overcome.
Your situation could be quite different, but hopefully something here is somewhat helpful. 
Edit, I am not great at masking for a long time, so I can't offer much help there. I find masking exhausting
03 Jun 2020, 7:55 pm
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03 Jun 2020, 9:30 pm
03 Jun 2020, 11:17 pm
Me personally, I read about a bunch of flirting styles, and picked some I was comfortable with.
Next time I hung out with someone I liked, I practiced some of the flirts (for me, it was "footsies") and surprisingly the guy responded (moving his foot closer to mine as well, etc).
It could be arm touches, "playful swatting," mostly anything subtle and physical. Most guys will realize that you like them and either respond or distance (depending on how they feel about you).
In my particular experience, this was my largest dating faux pas that I worked to overcome.
Your situation could be quite different, but hopefully something here is somewhat helpful.
Edit, I am not great at masking for a long time, so I can't offer much help there. I find masking exhausting
I find this to be NT social nonsense.
An aspie approach would be honest and direct,
The sort of thing 7 of 9, from the Star Trek Voyager series, would do.
03 Jun 2020, 11:21 pm
YouTube:
How to Flirt Without Being Creepy
YouTube · Charisma on Command
Cosmopolitan:
Cosmopolitan › relationships › how-...
Web results
How to flirt - How to flirt with a guy or girl - Cosmopolitan.com
Wikihow:
wikiHow › ... › Flirting
How to Flirt (with Pictures) - wikiHow
Science of people:
Science of People › Blog
How to Flirt: The 5 Types of Flirting Styles | Science of People
Not everything will apply to everyone. Scan and choose what applies/appeals to you.
People post youtube videos on this website all the time.
Just use the "Youtube" function above, in your typing post window.
04 Jun 2020, 2:00 pm
Do you have Asperger or not? Can you feel what others feel or do you only see how they may feel? Do you have problems regarding realizing irony and sarcasm and other emotional stuff in verbal language? How good are you at eye contact? Are you doing it? Do you get the emotions of others towards you if doing so? What are the problems you know once it comes to deal with other people?
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Life has to be an adventure!04 Jun 2020, 4:59 pm
that1weirdgrrrl
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04 Jun 2020, 10:56 pm
I like it better when we just hang out and play footsie or something.
You and I may have different definitions of flirting.... playing footsie was my main flirt when I liked a guy
When I said "flirt" I meant any nonverbal means of displaying interest.
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04 Jun 2020, 11:02 pm
that1weirdgrrrl
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04 Jun 2020, 11:07 pm
Isn't most romance?
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