The_Face_of_Boo
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15 Jun 2020, 7:29 am
Pepe wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Gentleman Argentum wrote:
sly279 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
How does this lady know you’ve never had a relationship?
And don’t tell me she can see it in your eyes.
The thing to do....is to not advertise your business to every Tom, Jane, and Morgan.
And don’t tell me she can see it in your eyes.
The thing to do....is to not advertise your business to every Tom, Jane, and Morgan.
She asked and I’m honest person.
Most everyone at work can tell I’m single and never had a relationship and a loser.
Everyone else talks about their relationship or their partner visits. I’m the only one who doesn’t so it’s not rocket science.
Don't mistake sexual/romantic activity as "success"
Those of us who have had "success" also get the other side of the coin, betrayal.
Right now I am going through divorce, how much of my $$$ net worth gets taken? Over and beyond that which was already stolen out of my home while I was at work?
It's no big thing getting caught up in some relationship, that can bring a lot of problems too. Be happy being single, ain't anything wrong with that, at all.
I won't make a joke because I know divorce can be one of the most painful experience people can go through.
But yes,
Being single can be a great alternative lifestyle.
BTW,
Probably a bit too soon,
But can you see yourself getting into another significant-other relationship?
Most humans and thst includes me, are social creatures. We aren’t meant to be alone and being alone is severely harmful to our mental and physical health.
I'm not human.
I am a Vulcan.
Live long and stay rational. V
You joke too much for a Vulcan.
The Vulcans aren't proud of you.
15 Jun 2020, 9:54 am
15 Jun 2020, 10:04 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Pepe wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Gentleman Argentum wrote:
sly279 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
How does this lady know you’ve never had a relationship?
And don’t tell me she can see it in your eyes.
The thing to do....is to not advertise your business to every Tom, Jane, and Morgan.
And don’t tell me she can see it in your eyes.
The thing to do....is to not advertise your business to every Tom, Jane, and Morgan.
She asked and I’m honest person.
Most everyone at work can tell I’m single and never had a relationship and a loser.
Everyone else talks about their relationship or their partner visits. I’m the only one who doesn’t so it’s not rocket science.
Don't mistake sexual/romantic activity as "success"
Those of us who have had "success" also get the other side of the coin, betrayal.
Right now I am going through divorce, how much of my $$$ net worth gets taken? Over and beyond that which was already stolen out of my home while I was at work?
It's no big thing getting caught up in some relationship, that can bring a lot of problems too. Be happy being single, ain't anything wrong with that, at all.
I won't make a joke because I know divorce can be one of the most painful experience people can go through.
But yes,
Being single can be a great alternative lifestyle.
BTW,
Probably a bit too soon,
But can you see yourself getting into another significant-other relationship?
Most humans and thst includes me, are social creatures. We aren’t meant to be alone and being alone is severely harmful to our mental and physical health.
I'm not human.
I am a Vulcan.
Live long and stay rational. V
You joke too much for a Vulcan.
The Vulcans aren't proud of you.
OK,
You got me.
I'm half Vulcan.
My mother is Ricky Gervais.
15 Jun 2020, 10:44 am
The_Face_of_Boo
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15 Jun 2020, 11:08 am
dragonsanddemons
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15 Jun 2020, 11:22 am
Pepe wrote:
dragonsanddemons wrote:
I think people just think of me as too young (I’m 27 but look like I’m about 16), or as “mentally handicapped” to the point where I’m off the market (I’m not, but something about me gives people that impression no matter what I do). They probably assume I’ve never had a romantic relationship (which is true) and never will, and that once I’m an adult (which I already am), I’ll spend my life in some sort of care home and essentially be a child for my whole life.
What's wrong with that?
It is called an "Alternative Life Style",
One which I keenly enjoy.
I never said there was anything wrong with it
It just is a big turn-off for most people.
15 Jun 2020, 2:17 pm
dragonsanddemons wrote:
Pepe wrote:
dragonsanddemons wrote:
I think people just think of me as too young (I’m 27 but look like I’m about 16), or as “mentally handicapped” to the point where I’m off the market (I’m not, but something about me gives people that impression no matter what I do). They probably assume I’ve never had a romantic relationship (which is true) and never will, and that once I’m an adult (which I already am), I’ll spend my life in some sort of care home and essentially be a child for my whole life.
What's wrong with that?
It is called an "Alternative Life Style",
One which I keenly enjoy.
I never said there was anything wrong with it
It just is a big turn-off for most people.Thought you didn’t wish to date?
Looking 16 is issue as anyone who dates you will possible seen as a pedophile.
I like small women. They’re super cute. Like they can’t reach a lot of things and how do is cute. There’s one at my work, she’s in relationship with guy twice as tall. My sister knows one who looks same age as her kids.
I don’t think the right guy would care. I wouldn’t mean it sucked having people be mean About it, But small women deserve to love and date too.
15 Jun 2020, 2:22 pm
You’re tall yourself.
I bet a cute, short girl would love you to carry her 
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15 Jun 2020, 2:35 pm
sly279 wrote:
dragonsanddemons wrote:
Pepe wrote:
dragonsanddemons wrote:
I think people just think of me as too young (I’m 27 but look like I’m about 16), or as “mentally handicapped” to the point where I’m off the market (I’m not, but something about me gives people that impression no matter what I do). They probably assume I’ve never had a romantic relationship (which is true) and never will, and that once I’m an adult (which I already am), I’ll spend my life in some sort of care home and essentially be a child for my whole life.
What's wrong with that?
It is called an "Alternative Life Style",
One which I keenly enjoy.
I never said there was anything wrong with it
It just is a big turn-off for most people.Thought you didn’t wish to date?
Looking 16 is issue as anyone who dates you will possible seen as a pedophile.
I like small women. They’re super cute. Like they can’t reach a lot of things and how do is cute. There’s one at my work, she’s in relationship with guy twice as tall. My sister knows one who looks same age as her kids.
I don’t think the right guy would care. I wouldn’t mean it sucked having people be mean About it, But small women deserve to love and date too.
I don’t particularly want to date, so I don’t mind the lack of attention so much, just speculating about why I don’t get attention.
Yeah, I think that’s a large part of why men never approach me or anything, is because they assume I’m underage and don’t want to get into any sort of trouble because of that even if they do find me attractive.
I’m not particularly small, actually (well, I am slender, but I’m about average height for a woman), I just have a youthful appearance. And it doesn’t help that I still have skin problems, too
15 Jun 2020, 2:58 pm
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15 Jun 2020, 3:14 pm
dragonsanddemons
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15 Jun 2020, 4:11 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
Trust me, Dragon: you will be glad you’re youthful looking when you get older.
That depends on whether I get wrinkles and white/gray hair around the average time people do to give my real age away
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15 Jun 2020, 5:32 pm
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15 Jun 2020, 5:52 pm
Redd_Kross wrote:
I've had quite a few relationships, and ruined all of them in one way or another. HFA makes it easier to meet people but my "otherness" is hidden and if I try to explain it properly I'm rarely believed. So yeah, relationships can be very difficult and aren't necessarily the Aspie holy grail they're sometimes made out to be.
Though I'm straight I have been "chatted up" by guys a few times. No real bother, I just say "sorry, not my thing". Though it does amuse me when people say "Are you sure?". Lol of course I'm sure! Have unintentionally ended up having some very interesting conversations with randoms this way. I think our awkward preciseness and geekiness gets mistaken for camp.
As for third party gossips, "experts" etc. it's really none of their business.
Though I'm straight I have been "chatted up" by guys a few times. No real bother, I just say "sorry, not my thing". Though it does amuse me when people say "Are you sure?". Lol of course I'm sure! Have unintentionally ended up having some very interesting conversations with randoms this way. I think our awkward preciseness and geekiness gets mistaken for camp.
As for third party gossips, "experts" etc. it's really none of their business.
Most people wouldn’t think I have autism. Hasn’t helped me meet anyone
Life without relationship isn’t life at all.
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