05 Jul 2020, 11:47 pm
sorrowfairiewhisper wrote:
In the animal kingdom and with us humans, the male seeks the females, they do the chasing, they are the chasers, we're the choosers. They do the pursuing, we do the deciding. They provide, we nurture. It's all mixed up these days, hence why theirs more divorces, failed several relationships ect. If a man demands sex and a women says no, then let him leave. if he loves you, he'll wait and be there for you!
Love and sex, should be mutual, consensual. No pressure, no demands, no giving in to one another. If someone threatens to leave you, put there needs before you or there interests or faith, then let them go! everything should be based on compromises, love and trust, mutual and reciprocal, consensual ect.
Love and sex, should be mutual, consensual. No pressure, no demands, no giving in to one another. If someone threatens to leave you, put there needs before you or there interests or faith, then let them go! everything should be based on compromises, love and trust, mutual and reciprocal, consensual ect.
There is the option of a man/woman going to a sex parlour.
Many married/partnered men do go there, for various reason.
I gather some "Wives" aren't too fussed about that either, as long as the man takes out the garbage and doesn't bring back any nasty surprises.
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Having committed to a long-term relationship, one partner should not deny sex to the other without a good reason. Of course there might be a good reason, but not being in the mood shouldn't be one of them. The understanding that each enjoys and desires sex with the other should have been a basis for the relationship to begin with. I honestly think one partner should make an honest effort to accommodate the other's physical urges even when they aren't necessarily in the mood to begin with. I think if you can't get yourself into the mood enough to at least satisfy your partners' urges at the time (something over which most of us have little control anyway) then there's something wrong with the relationship and you need to address that or else consider ending the relationship.
I do agree if one partner is actually "demanding" sex then something is seriously wrong but the reason for that needs to be addressed. It's a symptom not the disease.
I do agree if one partner is actually "demanding" sex then something is seriously wrong but the reason for that needs to be addressed. It's a symptom not the disease.
Eh no. You can control yourself. (I mean not when the urge hits but what you do about it).
The urge will pass.
What do you think single people do?
Eat Pizza?
Well, that's my go-to.
<Pepe thinks: How the hell am I going to get rid of all those pizza boxes?
>Ha ha, yes and then you just feel too bloaty to feel sexy.
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06 Jul 2020, 12:41 pm
Pepe wrote:
sorrowfairiewhisper wrote:
In the animal kingdom and with us humans, the male seeks the females, they do the chasing, they are the chasers, we're the choosers. They do the pursuing, we do the deciding. They provide, we nurture. It's all mixed up these days, hence why theirs more divorces, failed several relationships ect. If a man demands sex and a women says no, then let him leave. if he loves you, he'll wait and be there for you!
Love and sex, should be mutual, consensual. No pressure, no demands, no giving in to one another. If someone threatens to leave you, put there needs before you or there interests or faith, then let them go! everything should be based on compromises, love and trust, mutual and reciprocal, consensual ect.
Love and sex, should be mutual, consensual. No pressure, no demands, no giving in to one another. If someone threatens to leave you, put there needs before you or there interests or faith, then let them go! everything should be based on compromises, love and trust, mutual and reciprocal, consensual ect.
There is the option of a man/woman going to a sex parlour.
Many married/partnered men do go there, for various reason.
I gather some "Wives" aren't too fussed about that either, as long as the man takes out the garbage and doesn't bring back any nasty surprises.
Lol. I'd guess couples whom are poly don't mind it but the monogamous types, nah! if people just want hook ups, just stay single then have a partner or a spouse. Theirs always there hands lol
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