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27 Jul 2020, 12:56 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
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what do you mean very thick or very thin?

Really fat or totally thin and nearly no visible muscles.



call me stupid what does visible muscles mean?



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27 Jul 2020, 2:11 pm

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call me stupid what does visible muscles mean?

Just weak looking. E.g. bony and very thin arms can be a no go.



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27 Jul 2020, 3:32 pm

^ yeah.

arms like mine for example :oops:

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i do have a very hairy chest and body which is why maybe she was grossed out?

Could be. Women are very different if it comes to this.



do you think me being 5ft7 1/2 might be why some women view my body unattractive?


body hair is definitely more of a plus to some women, compared to others, but it's certainly not gross, that's just immature IMO.

attraction is a very weird, slippery thing and there's a lot that plays into it that's not related to height. i knew guys shorter than me (177 cm) that had no problem.

want real feedback from real women? post a pic.... :skull:


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27 Jul 2020, 3:43 pm

Kiprobalhato wrote:
^ yeah.

arms like mine for example :oops:

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Jamesy wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
i do have a very hairy chest and body which is why maybe she was grossed out?

Could be. Women are very different if it comes to this.



do you think me being 5ft7 1/2 might be why some women view my body unattractive?


body hair is definitely more of a plus to some women, compared to others, but it's certainly not gross, that's just immature IMO.

attraction is a very weird, slippery thing and there's a lot that plays into it that's not related to height. i knew guts shorter than me (177 cm) that had no problem.

want real feedback from real women? post a pic.... :skull:



I do weigh 160 pounds which I suppose is approaching the overweight zone for my height



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28 Jul 2020, 5:42 pm

Jamesy wrote:
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A house party’s not a great place to do that, either.


yeah true esspecially with covid

i do have a very hairy chest and body which is why maybe she was grossed out?


If so, she would be even more grossed out by a skunk taking his shirt off. :mrgreen:



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28 Jul 2020, 5:46 pm

Jamesy wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
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i do have a very hairy chest and body which is why maybe she was grossed out?

Could be. Women are very different if it comes to this.



do you think me being 5ft7 1/2 might be why some women view my body unattractive?


What do you mean by "some women"?
How many women are we talking about here? :scratch:



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28 Jul 2020, 5:51 pm

Kiprobalhato wrote:

body hair is definitely more of a plus to some women, compared to others, but it's certainly not gross, that's just immature IMO.

attraction is a very weird, slippery thing and there's a lot that plays into it that's not related to height. i knew guys shorter than me (177 cm) that had no problem.

want real feedback from real women? post a pic.... :skull:



177cm isn't that short. You must be quite tall.

@ OP.
Yeah, we want a picture so we can judge for ourselves.
Just make sure you have a figleaf on.
We don't want to scare the animals. :mrgreen:



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28 Jul 2020, 5:54 pm

Jamesy wrote:


I do weigh 160 pounds which I suppose is approaching the overweight zone for my height


It doesn't sound so overweight, but leaner is sexier, imo.



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28 Jul 2020, 5:59 pm

Pepe wrote:
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I do weigh 160 pounds which I suppose is approaching the overweight zone for my height


It doesn't sound so overweight, but leaner is sexier, imo.



What do you think would be a sexier/leaner weight for my height?

160-161 pounds is my weight in the morning without clothes on



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29 Jul 2020, 12:16 am

Jamesy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
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I do weigh 160 pounds which I suppose is approaching the overweight zone for my height


It doesn't sound so overweight, but leaner is sexier, imo.



What do you think would be a sexier/leaner weight for my height?

160-161 pounds is my weight in the morning without clothes on



Weight and height guide chart

The following weight and height chart uses BMI tables from the National Institute of Health to determine how much a person’s weight should be for their height.
Height Weight
Normal Overweight Obesity Severe obesity
4ft 10″
(58″) 91 to 115 lbs. 119 to 138 lbs. 143 to 186 lbs. 191 to 258 lbs.
4ft 11″
(59″) 94 to 119 lbs. 124 to 143 lbs. 148 to 193 lbs. 198 to 267 lbs.
5ft
(60″) 97 to 123 lbs. 128 to 148 lbs. 153 to 199 lbs. 204 to 276 lbs.
5ft 1″
(61″) 100 to 127 lbs. 132 to 153 lbs. 158 to 206 lbs. 211 to 285 lbs.
5ft 2″
(62″) 104 to 131 lbs. 136 to 158 lbs. 164 to 213 lbs. 218 to 295 lbs.
5ft 3″
(63″) 107 to 135 lbs. 141 to 163 lbs. 169 to 220 lbs. 225 to 304 lbs.
5ft 4″
(64″) 110 to 140 lbs. 145 to 169 lbs. 174 to 227 lbs. 232 to 314 lbs.
5ft 5″
(65″) 114 to 144 lbs. 150 to 174 lbs. 180 to 234 lbs. 240 to 324 lbs.
5ft 6″
(66″) 118 to 148 lbs. 155 to 179 lbs. 186 to 241 lbs. 247 to 334 lbs.
5ft 7″
(67″) 121 to 153 lbs. 159 to 185 lbs. 191 to 249 lbs. 255 to 344 lbs.

5ft 8″
(68″) 125 to 158 lbs. 164 to 190 lbs. 197 to 256 lbs. 262 to 354 lbs.
5ft 9″
(69″) 128 to 162 lbs. 169 to 196 lbs. 203 to 263 lbs. 270 to 365 lbs.
5ft 10″
(70″) 132 to 167 lbs. 174 to 202 lbs. 209 to 271 lbs. 278 to 376 lbs.
5ft 11″
(71″) 136 to 172 lbs. 179 to 208 lbs. 215 to 279 lbs. 286 to 386 lbs.
6ft
(72″) 140 to 177 lbs. 184 to 213 lbs. 221 to 287 lbs. 294 to 397 lbs.
6ft 1″
(73″) 144 to 182 lbs. 189 to 219 lbs. 227 to 295 lbs. 302 to 408 lbs.
6ft 2″
(74″) 148 to 186 lbs. 194 to 225 lbs. 233 to 303 lbs. 311 to 420 lbs.
6ft 3″
(75″) 152 to 192 lbs. 200 to 232 lbs. 240 to 311 lbs. 319 to 431 lbs.
6ft 4″
(76″) 156 to 197 lbs. 205 to 238 lbs. 246 to 320 lbs. 328 to 443 lbs.
BMI 19 to 24 25 to 29 30 to 39 40 to 54

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articl ... mass-index

According to this, you should be max around 153lbs.
Start jogging, mister. ;)



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11 Aug 2020, 7:14 pm

Pepe wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Last night at a party me and some male friends took our shirts of.

One woman in the group remarked that my body looked gross.

In height I am only 5ft7 1/2 so I can’t change that about myself but what aspects of our bodies can we change or improve?


How nice of her. <sarcasm>

What sort of ugly personality would say something like that?
How old was she?
Only a young person would say something like that, surely.

"Young and dumb", as they say. ;)


Both women and men say things like this to people they don't want coming on to them. I smiled at a guy once in a nightclub and he acted like I was the Elephant Man.(that was when I was young) My husband finds me beautiful even now. Girls used to insult him too but I think he is the cat's pajamas. RRRROOOWWWW!! !! :heart:



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11 Aug 2020, 7:16 pm

Pepe wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:

body hair is definitely more of a plus to some women, compared to others, but it's certainly not gross, that's just immature IMO.

attraction is a very weird, slippery thing and there's a lot that plays into it that's not related to height. i knew guys shorter than me (177 cm) that had no problem.

want real feedback from real women? post a pic.... :skull:



177cm isn't that short. You must be quite tall.

@ OP.
Yeah, we want a picture so we can judge for ourselves.
Just make sure you have a figleaf on.
We don't want to scare the animals. :mrgreen:


YOOOO! what is this, a meat market? I guess we should grab a ticket?



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12 Aug 2020, 12:49 am

RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Last night at a party me and some male friends took our shirts of.

One woman in the group remarked that my body looked gross.

In height I am only 5ft7 1/2 so I can’t change that about myself but what aspects of our bodies can we change or improve?


How nice of her. <sarcasm>

What sort of ugly personality would say something like that?
How old was she?
Only a young person would say something like that, surely.

"Young and dumb", as they say. ;)


Both women and men say things like this to people they don't want coming on to them. I smiled at a guy once in a nightclub and he acted like I was the Elephant Man.(that was when I was young) My husband finds me beautiful even now. Girls used to insult him too but I think he is the cat's pajamas. RRRROOOWWWW!! ! ! :heart:


Both *NT* women and men, presumably.
I doubt that aspies would use that strategy. 8O



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12 Aug 2020, 12:50 am

RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:

body hair is definitely more of a plus to some women, compared to others, but it's certainly not gross, that's just immature IMO.

attraction is a very weird, slippery thing and there's a lot that plays into it that's not related to height. i knew guys shorter than me (177 cm) that had no problem.

want real feedback from real women? post a pic.... :skull:



177cm isn't that short. You must be quite tall.

@ OP.
Yeah, we want a picture so we can judge for ourselves.
Just make sure you have a figleaf on.
We don't want to scare the animals. :mrgreen:


YOOOO! what is this, a meat market? I guess we should grab a ticket?


He could be "The Elephant Man".
We don't know unless we get a photo. :mrgreen:



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12 Aug 2020, 8:48 pm

Pepe wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:

body hair is definitely more of a plus to some women, compared to others, but it's certainly not gross, that's just immature IMO.

attraction is a very weird, slippery thing and there's a lot that plays into it that's not related to height. i knew guys shorter than me (177 cm) that had no problem.

want real feedback from real women? post a pic.... :skull:



177cm isn't that short. You must be quite tall.

@ OP.
Yeah, we want a picture so we can judge for ourselves.
Just make sure you have a figleaf on.
We don't want to scare the animals. :mrgreen:


YOOOO! what is this, a meat market? I guess we should grab a ticket?


He could be "The Elephant Man".
We don't know unless we get a photo. :mrgreen:

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



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13 Aug 2020, 7:31 pm

You could focus on losing some weight, but don't go too quickly, and also do muscle-building workouts at the same time. This will give you a leaner look. 180 would be an okay weight for your height, but only if you lift weights/work-out or are somehow naturally muscular. People can be awfully critical of superficialities, and taking your shirt off is like shining a spotlight on yourself and saying "take a look at this everyone". Alternatively, you can get close to women without taking your shirt off...and then at the last minute either let them see what you look like, or just tell them you're more comfortable leaving the shirt on (and you can even have sex with the shirt on). Most likely at that point it won't matter much either way. That has been my experience. But it does help to be in your best possible shape, shirt on or off. No one is perfect but if you're really trying hard and doing your best, it will show, and you'll win points, and the imperfections will be small enough to not matter.