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salad
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05 Jun 2021, 1:18 am

cyberdad wrote:
Like everyone here I am glad you are finding happiness and your personal experiences also answers a question about some personality traits you express on other threads so thanks for sharing.

Just wanted to draw attention to a couple of things you said.

salad wrote:
I didnt hate her, but me being not the brightest socially never ever once thought of the possibility of her liking me.


You then answer your own question,

salad wrote:
[Granted a lot of girls had crushes on me, but to fall in love and propose to me?
This is the 1st time ive ever felt like this


Good luck and may she verily toss your salad :lol:


To clarify the confusion, let me explain. Ive known girls have had crushes on me but that has more to do with attraction rather than actually liking or loving me. Crushes from girls were because of my athleticism, but not because of me as a person. I was surprised someone would actually love me enough to propose to me and pour her heart out saying she loves me. That was unexpected


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05 Jun 2021, 1:24 am

salad wrote:
To clarify the confusion, let me explain. Ive known girls have had crushes on me but that has more to do with attraction rather than actually liking or loving me. Crushes from girls were because of my athleticism, but not because of me as a person. I was surprised someone would actually love me enough to propose to me and pour her heart out saying she loves me. That was unexpected


That actually makes sense, A relationship built purely on physical attraction is a risk, you have nicely explained your shared experiences with this girl. There is enough there for a mutual bond to form and I wish you well.