Are most Aspies good-looking...?

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29 Jul 2007, 12:38 pm

I think that I'm good-looking. I'm big and beautiful. :wink:



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29 Jul 2007, 4:17 pm

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Given our fickle and shallow modern society in which we live, if most Aspies were good looking then the majority of us would have no trouble at all finding a relationship...

Looks-wise, we're no different to anybody else. One persons beautiful is another persons ugly.


Fickleness is based more with personality, not so much looks.

Aspies have problems with relationships because many NTs are screwed up, don't know what they want, are disloyal, dishonest, and make a stupid game of something as serious as deep human connection.

A lot of NT relationships are falling apart all around me because people are stupid and don't know what they want, or they're just stupid-stupid.

NT girls are fickle because they're stupid.
NT guys are fickle because they're stupid.

I'm not saying that all NTs are stupid, but many of them are.

Aspies are superior in both intellect, and the art of relationships.

The only reason why aspies have problems with relationships, is because we are logical, rational, pragmatic people. Our clear-cut, logical and emotional reasoing does not compute with the irrationalities and inconsistencies and blatant randomness of NT emotions.

Many NTs are cowards when it comes to relationships and they will not state their clear desires or intentions.
Many NTs cannot man up (or woman up) to say: "Thank you very much, but I am not interested."
They hide behind hints and lies that only other NTs can "kind of" read.

Aspies communicate much better than NTs through blatant honesty, which many NTs find offensive or disturbing.


The only reason why we struggle with relationships is because we are too intelligent to "dumb relationships down" to the level of the NT. Our symptom of aspergers is such that we do not have the ability to be stupid in a relationship. We do not have the ability to be disloyal. We do not have the ability to play games.

Asperger's Syndrome? I THINK NOT!

We have Asperger's Ability!



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29 Jul 2007, 4:30 pm

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29 Jul 2007, 5:16 pm

oh no its white castle. i havent seen one of those places since i lived back east, anyways i am EXTREMELY handsome. imagine a very good looking elf and thats me. :) 8O :D


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29 Jul 2007, 6:30 pm

heh, i saw many of your pics (guys and gals) from the side profile thread, i woulda posted mine, but id have to have a photo on the internet unfortunatly, cant do it off the harddrive, ya, i mean... we all seem good looking, but its hard to connect with ppl, thats why many of us our alone, i prey their is someone for all of us... if thats what we want (i assume yes if we are all chillin in loving and dating)

Jkrane: good post man, i agree!



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29 Jul 2007, 6:46 pm

Trigger11 wrote:
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All Aspies look good eating white castle hamburgers?


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29 Jul 2007, 8:17 pm

Pugly wrote:
Trigger11 wrote:
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All Aspies look good eating white castle hamburgers?


Of course! Didn't you hear that's the latest uncovered scientific research unveiled on Aspergers! :o :lol:



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29 Jul 2007, 8:23 pm

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Of course! Didn't you hear that's the latest uncovered scientific research unveiled on Aspergers! :o :lol:


Breaking news: Whites Castles cures AS! Greasy fingers improves social skills! 8O


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29 Jul 2007, 8:43 pm

Sometimes it takes an Intarwebz meme to express an idea most succinctly:

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29 Jul 2007, 8:45 pm

Woman wrote:
Pugly wrote:
Trigger11 wrote:
This picture speaks for itself:

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All Aspies look good eating white castle hamburgers?


Of course! Didn't you hear that's the latest uncovered scientific research unveiled on Aspergers! :o :lol:


It's the reconstituted dehydrated chopped onions that is the secret. . .



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29 Jul 2007, 9:00 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
Woman wrote:
Pugly wrote:
Trigger11 wrote:
This picture speaks for itself:

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All Aspies look good eating white castle hamburgers?


Of course! Didn't you hear that's the latest uncovered scientific research unveiled on Aspergers! :o :lol:


It's the reconstituted dehydrated chopped onions that is the secret. . .


i was under the impression that it was because white castle is too cheap to use cows for meat and that they use horse meat instead (complete fabrication.... white castle /ick)

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29 Jul 2007, 9:13 pm

I'd have to agree with Gwen, its the people who are good looking kinda making a somewhat futile attempt at advertising the only thing they have above the next person - and really it doesn't work just because we have so many pretty faces here on both sides.



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29 Jul 2007, 9:22 pm

real aspies don't care about looks, which is a narcassist thing

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29 Jul 2007, 9:31 pm

With all due compassion there's lots about people that they aren't really in control of, attraction seems like its been one of the strongest cases in point. As far as choosing whether or not to like someone in a platonic sense over that - your right to a greater degree but in the end there's lots of economics that go on even in how we pick our friends in life.



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29 Jul 2007, 9:48 pm

BazzaMcKenzie wrote:
real aspies don't care about looks, which is a narcassist thing

- lol


oh, Bazza it all depends on what those looks you don't care about get all dressed up in. I am certain if I saw you in your kilt I would have a distinct reaction, and if you saw me in my corset and thigh high boots, you would have one of your own. . .


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29 Jul 2007, 9:58 pm

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.... and if you saw me in my corset and thigh high boots, you would have one of your own. . .
Merle

Your Rocky Horror outfit? :shameonyou: :P


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