What are your behaviors when you like someone?

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A friend of mine was stalking another friend of mine. The result was a restraining order. He still hasn't gotten over it. Talk about obsessed...!

<giggle>

I have a huge selection of surveilance equipment, cameras, phone taps, first, I find out everything I can about them by hacking into their hard drive, then, I change all of their accounts passwords, then, I go to the local court house and apply for a marriage certificate, using their personal info. I hide behind plants, and scope them out, I pretend like I am invisible, I drive by their residence, at least 100 times a day. I phone their work place incessantly, always giving a different name.... <Jokeing>

Hey, at least when you're stalking someone, you get their attention without actually having to talk to them. I turn into a blithering idiot when I try and talk to someone I like.

Restraining orders don't thrill me.

The closest I've come to stalking was
walking by people's houses whom I had
an attachment to. I did this, even after they'd
moved though. But before, there was always
the hope of serendipity.

Felt like stalking though.

Oh...this IS fun....

I seem to think that I have to get a good "feel" for the person before I reveal my undying love. To cloak the latent desires of my heart, I utilise the "The closer your are to danger, the farther you are from harm." This actually led me to comically ask a girl to marry me, much to the amusement of all involved. But then again, I picked the girl who was smart enough to curb all of her actions to defy social convention so that no one could really see what she was thinking. So I can't read people and I picked the girl that is excessively difficult to read. I broke her, though. I have seen the inner workings of her mind, and they were beautiful. Sadly, she had to leave for school in Britain. God damn it.

When it comes to asking someone out, I'd like to think that I have a talent here....at least for an amusing gimmick. The aforementioned girl I asked out via a debate case; it was awesome.

So, what you all are saying is I have to walk up to you, sit on your lap, plant a big smooch on your face, and rub your pee pee, to get you to know that I am interested? That sounds like alot of work. Almost too much work. (I would, of course, never do that). If that scenario happened, wouldn't you be a tiny bit embarrassed? What if your friends were teasing you about the girly?

I normally act flirty with girls I like once I talk to them, it gives them an idea I'm interested in them

Uhm....

Nah. But when I was younger, even THAT wouldn't
have worked. I had a girl on my HS bus, who would
play with my cock, and I never trusted that she
wasn't just teasing. Didn't go to her house, when she
invited me.

I've learned to pick up subtle clues like this,
but not how to really indicate the proper response
back yet.

Let 'em tease; any embarrassment would be worth it. I'd get over it and they'd be jealous.

Um... usually end up nervously giggling and talking too much.

I wouldn't call that subtle...

Does this actually happen to you, women coming up and groping you? Maybe I'm just naive, but I'm pretty sure none of the women I've been friends with have ever done that to a guy they weren't already dating.

I get nervous, keep glancing in their direction, stutter when talking to them, just general embarrassment I guess. I obsess, which I hate doing.

It changes when the ice is broken though.

Once in HS. A couple of times in the next 20 years. A lot more
recently, since I'm going to clubs and dancing. Guys too though.

The more I'm attracted to someone, the harder I find it to talk to them and maintain eye contact. So generally I pretty much avoid them.. probably why I'm single.