"8 surprising turn-ons for men"

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And here, I thought men liked it when we stood up straight with good posture and such because it made our boobs stick out

Maybe your boobs sticking out remind us how we can help you with that excess energy.

Hey Ragtime, don’t forget belly full/balls empty LOL!

These are NT turn ons because they are subtle.

Let’s try AS turn-ons!!

1. Stop talking

2. Leave me alone for an hour or day or week or month

3. Stop telling me what to do

4. Appreciate my interests/talents

5. Stop moving my things

6. Find something I lost

7. Feed me

8. Stop touching me

LOL, this is in good humor. Please add some for those of us who are NT trying to turn on our AS partner. Or at least, not annoy them…

I pretty much agree.

only #8 is unconsciously true

Some hats, yes. Baseball hats, not particularly.

One thing I'd like to add to this list would be the pleated skirt and tall boots combo, a very underrated tactic.

I LOVES the pleated skirts.

Then again, I just like
skirts.

1. Be very intuitive. Read me, because I often can't verbalize what I need her to know.

That would be the biggest turn-on in the world for me: if she could just look at me, and know me. How to deal with me, and how best to help us get along with each other.

The reason that is my biggest turn-on is probably because I am misread CONSTANTLY, everywhere I go -- even by close friends and family, and also was by my now-ex-wife. Everyone is so TOTALLY off-base when guessing what I'm thinking or feeling, that it ranges from humorous to very painful. No doubt this is common for Aspies. So, a woman who understood me would have my full attention.

I have my own tastes.

Tim

Male here.

1, 4, and 6, sure.

Otherwise, the list baffles me.

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Hey Ragtime, don’t forget belly full/balls empty LOL!

These are NT turn ons because they are subtle.

Let’s try AS turn-ons!!

1. Stop talking

2. Leave me alone for an hour or day or week or month

3. Stop telling me what to do

4. Appreciate my interests/talents

5. Stop moving my things

6. Find something I lost

7. Feed me

8. Stop touching me

LOL, this is in good humor. Please add some for those of us who are NT trying to turn on our AS partner. Or at least, not annoy them…



I like this list better , I can actually relate to it, except maybe the touching part, applied to a very few areas and done very skillfully...TMI...

The actual list (the one with the baseball hat and stuff) just eludes my understanding, I think that is made by a very superficial NT? Sorry if my opinion seems rude. And plus, I am a woman with social retardation...

What do you mean by belly full/balls empty? I know it's a dumb question, but I expect an honest, intelligent answer, than you!

I don't really know how to paste sometimes, so this makes me very unattractive, I guess?

Honest, true to their word.

Most of that list is not true if one is an NT.

Supposedly, it's how some people think a woman can successfully keep a man from straying/cheating. I had set up a poll a while back, asking whether it was true. Most people who voted thought it was, including me.

This is a very important one for me... while I am a 19 yr old college student who has never had the benefit of a real romantic experience, my mom keeps moving my stuff around, and I must say it's most annoying.

However, the even more annoying thing is when she tells me to get something out of the refrigerator. When I spend 5 mins scanning the refrigerator for the item in question, she gets up, moves the milk bottle and all of a sudden there it is.

I guess the point of this anecdote is that I'm not only peeved with people moving my stuff, I also get peeved when I'm forced into the role of perpetrator and I have to move other people's stuff... How do NT's stand that?

Thank you, Ragtime, for the clarification...lol...I didn't think it meant that because it must be a thing of the past, these days the motto is: "sexual perversions/balls empty"... for one night...and move on to the next "slut"...I feel like we women became just that for most men..sorry to be negative, I have still to meet a normal man and by that I don't mean an NT...lol...

ToadOfSteel, the same thing you describe with looking into the refrigerator happens when I ask my daughter to get something from there...I kind of get an idea that I am annoying her, but it's not normal to do everything for her. I have suffered enough because of my peculiarities, I am trying to make her stronger than I was/am. I had a very strong discussion with her recently about learning to act more NT, because I even get tired of the anger outbursts and the lack of communication and I am just like her, with Asperger. I actually got her attention. Last year, the counselor at her school was brand new and she didn't realize that my daughter is AS so the dumb b***h called the Child Protective Services and freaked my daughter out completely...I made a big stink with the School District...the counselor is still a dumb b***h, but at least now she knows she is... It is complicated for parents to try to intervene into their children behaviour...in my case it is specially hard, because I know I am a good person, no-BS, totally unfake, so I know my daughter is OK, but those types of things that I just mentioned, dumb counselors and stuff can really hurt us, so the more we fake we are NT, more people get off our backs. Blah, blah, blah...

Thank you!

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