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05 Nov 2007, 5:31 pm

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havent lost hope in trying to attract him......... it's obvious what he wants





So he likes you and he wants you badly while you are so attracted to him yet you don't want him ..... I am lost now .


She's not interested in going ahead with him, and she doesn't know why. Everything seems in place, but it's just not working.


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05 Nov 2007, 5:47 pm

It was doomed, being based on fantasy rather than reality. Sad but true.


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05 Nov 2007, 5:49 pm

Ragtime wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
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havent lost hope in trying to attract him......... it's obvious what he wants





So he likes you and he wants you badly while you are so attracted to him yet you don't want him ..... I am lost now .


She's not interested in going ahead with him, and she doesn't know why. Everything seems in place, but it's just not working.


yes thankyou

it's just pointless................. and he couldnt handle me anyway, i think.


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05 Nov 2007, 5:50 pm

@LP

thankyou for the encouragement... will find some miracle-growth and sprinkle it down there and pray


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11 Nov 2007, 11:27 pm

When you're attracted to someone it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously, so what we know as fate is two neuroses knowing that they're a perfect match. ~ Sleepless in Seattle

Go back to Alex :wink: :lol:


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12 Nov 2007, 11:12 am

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When you're attracted to someone it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously, so what we know as fate is two neuroses knowing that they're a perfect match. ~ Sleepless in Seattle

Go back to Alex :wink: :lol:


im lost.

just saw that movie the other night btw.


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12 Nov 2007, 11:16 am

I would continue to befriend him and see what happens (in a non-flierty way and without pretending to, at the moment, being romantically interested in him). If you don't become attracted to him, it's best not to attempt to be anything other than friends. If you do become attracted later, don't hide it. It may be that there is something missing so there is no chemistry, it may be that you're afraid of being hurt again (i've been there), or something else.


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12 Nov 2007, 11:49 am

Sedaka, Trust your feelings. and keep trying if it doesn't work it doesn't work plus. we are always here if you need help :D



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12 Nov 2007, 12:02 pm

silveredglasses wrote:
Sedaka, Trust your feelings. and keep trying if it doesn't work it doesn't work plus. we are always here if you need help :D


True. Of course, she's the one who has to take the fallout, not us.


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12 Nov 2007, 4:40 pm

meh this guy hasnt even asked me to come hang out with him and his friends since i've politely shot him down.

i was nice! i swear! but w/e. least i have WoW


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12 Nov 2007, 4:59 pm

Sorry to hear that.


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12 Nov 2007, 5:42 pm

Sedaka wrote:
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When you're attracted to someone it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously, so what we know as fate is two neuroses knowing that they're a perfect match. ~ Sleepless in Seattle

Go back to Alex :wink: :lol:


im lost.

just saw that movie the other night btw.

Just kidding. Remember Alex's youtube video with his GF, you said you were outed.


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12 Nov 2007, 5:54 pm

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i was nice! i swear! but w/e. least i have WoW


Hehe. I believe you. But there is classically "no nice way" for a girl to shoot down a guy's interest in her, no matter how nice she is about it. :| And I think the reverse is true as well. It's hard to communicate turning down either gender without the dreaded "REJECTION" word flashing across their minds, however briefly. I've learned how to bounce back pretty well though, myself.


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12 Nov 2007, 5:55 pm

hey, it's Borat:) That's the turk showing up on her door step, he's replied to several of her posts here :P Go get'er done Borat.



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12 Nov 2007, 6:14 pm

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least i have WoW


You and the WoW... We've gotta get you a guy who can pull you away from the computer for a while!



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12 Nov 2007, 7:44 pm

BazzaMcKenzie wrote:
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When you're attracted to someone it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously, so what we know as fate is two neuroses knowing that they're a perfect match. ~ Sleepless in Seattle

Go back to Alex :wink: :lol:


im lost.

just saw that movie the other night btw.

Just kidding. Remember Alex's youtube video with his GF, you said you were outed.


no, he outted me as an aspie to the world.... cause he mentioned his school and then what i was doing (at his school, as i do go there)...

you'd have to be pretty savy or driven, but you could figure out who i am


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