Wabbits wrote:
Hey people who've never been kissed and people who are passively wishing for someone to date and possibly kiss..... Do you realize that dating someone requires a little bit of luck, a realistic dose of determination, and being in the right place at the right time? Ask yourself this question, where would a woman or man, whom I might have something in common with hang out? In other words, what are your interests, and hobbies? Photography?Take a class/Art?Go to the museum or take a class Cooking?/take a cooking class...
See where I'm going with this? If you aren't "out there" no one can find you, and you can't find or meet them. It's important to meet someone who shares some of your interests; sexual attraction isn't enough in the long run...but it's a hell of a lot of fun at the time...(ahhhh, the good old days,ha)
Another good place to meet people? Places like Borders, and Barnes and Noble, swap meets, smaller venue concerts,antiquing; the list is endless, and it all depends on what YOUR interests are.
Bars aren't a good place to meet people because alcohol changes the whole dynamic, but that's just my opinion, the rest of this is just advice. A bar scene is ok for a date with someone you are already dating, someone you already know...point here being, alcohol changes everyones personality.
Also, ask every couple you know, even the unhappy ones, where they met, and how they met, etc.-sometimes info like this can help put that search for that certain someone, in the proper perspective.
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My candle burns at both ends, it will not last the night, but oh my foes and oh my friends, it gives a lovely light~Edna St Vincent Millay
Yes, the problem for me is that I don't know what I'm interested in anymore (then again, I think I've lost interest in relationships in any case)
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El hombre es una bestia famélica, envidiosa e insaciable. (Francisco Tario)
I'm male by the way (yes, I know my avatar is misleading).