Do you remember your first kiss?

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ToadOfSteel
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10 Dec 2007, 6:19 pm

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Nah, it's ok now, I love my nerdiness now, and am at peace with being the Queen of all Geekazoids...


Too bad you're a little old for me (not trying to sound offensive but I'm only 19)... I have a thing for nerds...

And as for the OP, no, I haven't even had a g/f yet, let alone kissed anyone...



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10 Dec 2007, 7:01 pm

Never kissed or been kissed romantically and I'm 23. Never even held a GD hand at the movies. I did ask once, but she turned me down. I deserved it. She could have done better than me.



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10 Dec 2007, 7:11 pm

I was 17 when I had my first kiss. It was weird and wonderful.

Then my dad came and ruined the moment.
Like he did when called telling he'll pick me up in 10 minutes, right when I was going to lose my virginity.
So I never did.
Guess that's off topic though.



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10 Dec 2007, 10:35 pm

Wow, you folks are makin' me feel old! I mean, for the age of my 1st kiss. :(
My first Kiss was at age 19(though the first time I actually held hands with a girl was at age 10 in 4th grade).
Twas with my first gf and the thing is that I asked her to put her head on my chest as I lay on my back on her bed. She did so, I turned out the lights and then.............BOOM, she started french-kissing me! At the exact moment her lips touched mine my first thought was: woah, what the hell is this! what is she doing? but then it dawned on me and Im thinking:
ZOMGWTFBBQ!! !!1!!1! She's KISSING me! :D . I ended up making out with her for at least a few hours before we drifted off to sleep. This all took place exactl 9 years ago this November.



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10 Dec 2007, 11:11 pm

Ziyaret wrote:
Wow, you folks are makin' me feel old! I mean, for the age of my 1st kiss. :(
My first Kiss was at age 19(though the first time I actually held hands with a girl was at age 10 in 4th grade).
Twas with my first gf and the thing is that I asked her to put her head on my chest as I lay on my back on her bed. She did so, I turned out the lights and then.............BOOM, she started french-kissing me! At the exact moment her lips touched mine my first thought was: woah, what the hell is this! what is she doing? but then it dawned on me and Im thinking:
ZOMGWTFBBQ!! !!1! !1! She's KISSING me! :D . I ended up making out with her for at least a few hours before we drifted off to sleep. This all took place exactl 9 years ago this November.


Don't feel so bad... I'm 19 (20 in january) and still waiting...

I did end up holding hands with a girl once last sumer though... it kinda just happened as we were talking, but it did end up firing off whatever capabilities of romanticism that are still up there...



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11 Dec 2007, 4:59 am

Hey people who've never been kissed and people who are passively wishing for someone to date and possibly kiss..... Do you realize that dating someone requires a little bit of luck, a realistic dose of determination, and being in the right place at the right time? Ask yourself this question, where would a woman or man, whom I might have something in common with hang out? In other words, what are your interests, and hobbies? Photography?Take a class/Art?Go to the museum or take a class Cooking?/take a cooking class...
See where I'm going with this? If you aren't "out there" no one can find you, and you can't find or meet them. It's important to meet someone who shares some of your interests; sexual attraction isn't enough in the long run...but it's a hell of a lot of fun at the time...(ahhhh, the good old days,ha)
Another good place to meet people? Places like Borders, and Barnes and Noble, swap meets, smaller venue concerts,antiquing; the list is endless, and it all depends on what YOUR interests are.
Bars aren't a good place to meet people because alcohol changes the whole dynamic, but that's just my opinion, the rest of this is just advice. A bar scene is ok for a date with someone you are already dating, someone you already know...point here being, alcohol changes everyones personality.
Also, ask every couple you know, even the unhappy ones, where they met, and how they met, etc.-sometimes info like this can help put that search for that certain someone, in the proper perspective.

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11 Dec 2007, 6:30 am

Never have.



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11 Dec 2007, 1:49 pm

Wabbits wrote:
Hey people who've never been kissed and people who are passively wishing for someone to date and possibly kiss..... Do you realize that dating someone requires a little bit of luck, a realistic dose of determination, and being in the right place at the right time? Ask yourself this question, where would a woman or man, whom I might have something in common with hang out? In other words, what are your interests, and hobbies? Photography?Take a class/Art?Go to the museum or take a class Cooking?/take a cooking class...
See where I'm going with this? If you aren't "out there" no one can find you, and you can't find or meet them. It's important to meet someone who shares some of your interests; sexual attraction isn't enough in the long run...but it's a hell of a lot of fun at the time...(ahhhh, the good old days,ha)
Another good place to meet people? Places like Borders, and Barnes and Noble, swap meets, smaller venue concerts,antiquing; the list is endless, and it all depends on what YOUR interests are.
Bars aren't a good place to meet people because alcohol changes the whole dynamic, but that's just my opinion, the rest of this is just advice. A bar scene is ok for a date with someone you are already dating, someone you already know...point here being, alcohol changes everyones personality.
Also, ask every couple you know, even the unhappy ones, where they met, and how they met, etc.-sometimes info like this can help put that search for that certain someone, in the proper perspective.

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Yes, the problem for me is that I don't know what I'm interested in anymore (then again, I think I've lost interest in relationships in any case)


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11 Dec 2007, 2:03 pm

My first kiss..... I was 9 and my boyfriend was walking home with me after school. He stopped me in Hornby Lane, pushed me against the stone wall, and kissed me (closed mouths). After that day we used to practice every afternoon on the way home. Then, in the summer holidays, he moved to Germany and I never heard from him again.



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11 Dec 2007, 6:59 pm

I don't remember it, nor do I remember the first time I had sex. I know roughly when and with whom both happened, but the actual event itself is lost in my sketchy brain. There are plenty of other kisses and intimacies I can recall, but not my firsts. I don't remember a lot of the events in my life as well as other people do, and the ones I can are more procedural memory than sensory.



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12 Dec 2007, 5:19 am

I remember, it was the last day of school, in 9th grade, and I kinda wish it could be erased from my memory.


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12 Dec 2007, 6:44 pm

Never did it and probably never will and my life is already more than half over.



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12 Dec 2007, 9:29 pm

I've never been kissed and most likely never will.



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12 Dec 2007, 10:13 pm

Berserker wrote:
I've never been kissed and most likely never will.


Same here...



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13 Dec 2007, 12:13 am

...you guys saying you will never be kissed... GET COUNSELING!! That kind of depression and/or negative self-image is incredibly destructive, and your own worst enemy! (I can speak from experience there...)

It won't happen if you think like that! :cry:



My first kiss that was more than a peck was some experimenting in jr. high.... My friend was more popular than me, but liked having me around... the girls were all over him, but he charmed a couple of them into giving me my first kisses and a few pointers.

No romance there..... but I suppose the experience would be somewhat beneficial down the road. Too bad I got obsessed with sex along the way which began to cause trouble. (Glad THAT got fixed!)



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13 Dec 2007, 10:52 am

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...you guys saying you will never be kissed... GET COUNSELING!! That kind of depression and/or negative self-image is incredibly destructive, and your own worst enemy! (I can speak from experience there...)

It won't happen if you think like that! :cry:


Feel whatever you want from that... I, for one, take comfort in the fact that a definite fact about my life even exists. There's too many variables in life to keep track of, and that fact eliminates one from the equation.

Would I like to kiss a woman? As long as she's in my age range and not taken or anything... of course. I just know that such things just don't happen with the skill level I possess...