why do guys want to be the alpha male?

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There are positive alpha males.
There are negative alpha males.

There are positive omega males (omega males is a term Icarusfalling used and it fits)
There are negative omega males.

Positive alpha males will take the initiative based on superficial traits, have charm and use their positive traits to get notice and if turned down at first won't sulk but try again either with same female or another. They also if it is very clear they are not wanted around will not crowd someone's personal space. They don't hold resentment towards the female but moves on.

Negative alpha males. They don't take no for an answer, even a blunt no and will sometimes force a woman to comply or slip ruphies in her drink. They are aggressive in a bad way and often hate women because they feel that every woman must say yes to them. These women in the negative alpha male's mind deserve to be taken advantage of for looking pretty.

Positive omega males. Analyze their potential mate. Sometimes they will psyche themselves out at first but then just go ahead and gather the nerve and will strike up an intelligent conversation. If rejected at first, it may need someone else's pep talk to cheer them up and try again but if it's an obvious blunt get the hell away, they go back to their corner to scope and analyze the next possible mate before deciding to approach or not approach.

Negative omega males. They sulk, don't bother trying and if they do try hate all women if not successful at first. Blame all problems on women and how awful they are. Then the negative omega male will not put forth any effort on their part to change some aspects and harbor resentment for women.


What makes a positive omega male, positive? He tries. He doesn't hiss and curse women if not successful but at least he tries.

Some women don't mind being hunted after for superficial reasons and other women do mind and get insulted for the lack of display of intelligence.

Unlike what people tend to think, there are intelligent pretty females and perhaps some of you really want Jenny Mccarthy type females but can you think about the deeper root of your cause to find a mate? Think about what is on the inside too because men seem to obsess a little too much about what is on the outside in comparisson to women finding males.

Women are more attractive naturally but that sucks. It sucks because females that have more to offer than bubbly personalities and blonde fluffy hair have a difficult time when they went against the normal stereotypical genderly correct crap which is way off and have to deal with men freaking out because they have something on the inside.

What do you want on the outside? Is it a real obtainable goal?

What do you want on the inside? Can both of you handle it?

So Alpha versus Omega is really just a personality versus looks thing? Why assume that men only look for one or the other? Why not just realise that both are important to varying degrees? Gah some people really are too attached to labels.

Only pack animals follow the "alpha male" routine. So the question is: Are human males pack animals?

I tend to think that NT males are. That's one reason I don't like them, in general.

The power to really own and control your environment.

I think it is irrelevant what an alpha male is.

In the end you are what you are. There are many different types of male and there are corresponding types of female.

If you like the women you date, and have positive experiences then keep doing what you do. If you keep having bad experiences then maybe you should change how you approach women. And this applies visa versa to women.