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I agree with LVBen on this. I find Latina girls more attractive than Asian/Japanese girls. And yeah, always always ALWAYS use a condom when you have sex with a stranger.

I've looked at the situation in Thailand before and I've seen programmes on TV about it. I have to say that I think it's all very unedifying - these girls want a better life and they end up going off with these dysfunctional wasters. Thailand looks like a great country as long as you realise that everyone's trying to make money out of you. So it is with the girls.

My friend has a Filipino wife but he met her by meeting one of her friends at a church group in Australia. It cost him a small fortune to get her (and her daughter) over here but now they are married and have an additional child. They've been married about 5 years.

I think it depends on whether you find them on a desperado page or not.

I wouldn't marry for companionship; very rare. Even if I did meet someone in another Country and they seemed interested in me, I would be on guard. I would suspect them of wanting to use me to obtain a marriage green card. I know SOOO many Europeans in the US who chose this route.

2 girls from Russia: not sure if they were honest about their intentions, but one is in the process of getting a divorce (we went out a few times), and another who is a friend from work who is divorced now at 24 and is in college with her green card and all.
A 30 year old Serbian guy doing the same thing
and rumors of others

I did know of one couple that joked about it all, actually fell in love, then 6-8 months after the birth of their baby (post partum depression?) started having problems. They are living in the same city at least, but divorce bound.

Truth be known, marriage statistics are grim. I would be hesitant to marry anyone now. I hate to be one of those lists people but here's mine for marriage:

1 - I am well entrenched in a job with upward mobility or opportunities. Decent money. (Money and mixing money is a big issue in marriages now)
2 - My wife to be is settled ready: has or very close to her career or life pursuit. A woman who is still "searching for herself" in any way is not ready for marriage. She has to know what she wants, wants to do, and be satisfied with hers/mine and our current income.

3 - The sex has to be great. We can't add it to a "to-do" list to fix later. Sex is very important and both partners should have similar appetites.

4 - More important than sex, a strong friendship and bond needs to be established. This probably needs to be tested to ensure that it isn't something that will change. I would actually rather meet a future wife from some past association: work, old friend, etc... there will be more non-sexual empathy, and you can rest assured that the bond is real and not a fleeting infatuation.

5 - Child bearing safe age and similar feelings about having children. This puts most women at 35 and under, or someone very youthful and in shape, who never did drugs who is 40 and under.

6 - No apologies here; just my preference. A girl who has mostly gal friends and very few male friends. I've had girlfriends who had more guy friends than girls and that worried me. Especially if they used to date a couple of the guys. I just always believe that most women who accept straight guy friends, have some sort of subconscious sexual attraction to them. That is unless the guys are totally out of type and not very physically attractive.

A girl who can't get along with many other females probably has some issue. This is negated, if the guy friends are gay, or married, or family.

YAY!! !

It's so nice when one of these stories has a happy ending.

I lived in Japan for nearly 3 years, and from my observations, I'd have to agree with Richard.

Being a white male in Japan isn't a guarantee, but it is a huge advantage.

Mine would be Asperger's syndrome.

Most of my friends are men, and most of them are exes. A guy who can't handle that is free to go.

I don't have any attraction left for most of them, and the ones I do, I would never act on. I can't speak for them, of course.

Heres a mail order bride who will never leave you!
Or nag you
Or spend your money.
Or grow old

This looks like a RealDoll; I've seen their company's website (no link because this is not the Adult Discussion forum). In all honesty, the RealDolls look kind of robotic, rather than human (perhaps this is the Uncanny Valley effect playing itself out). Also, judging from the face in the picture, the doll looks like she's underage, if you know what I mean. So for me, no thanks, no way, no how.

Yes I got the picture from Real Doll,
Apparently they are delivered sitting on a chair, It must be a bit embarressing answering the door to the postman delivering one of these.

Or where do you put it like, say you have do meet a girl, its not like you can let the air out and hide it under the bed!

haha i thought that was a real girl! nice one!! !!
but seriously. im now exculsively for hippy girls only, yes i love hairy bush. tiedye skirts and dreadlocks on women

What the hell is that grease on her face? Were you doing something naughty up there?

Like being a blond, white woman in Korea. But worshipped?

Oopsie.

Aluminum Ticket's my daughter; I didn't know she'd logged in. My bad, that was me.

Yeah, "worshipped" is hyperbole.

I did get a free cab ride, and meals, and presents. And, I was 38 and a rather handsome record-store employee in a silver zoot suit sidled up to me and held my hand. Usually, I'd back off, but instead found it surprising and charming.

The Asian women I was with, found it not-so-charming. ha.