For trying to do the right thing...

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You know what you want and you won't settle for anything which is a good trait. Don't let it bum you out. I can't believe you are getting scolded for not going through with it by the guys here.

Is this an advice thread or a rant thread?

All I can say is, if she would have preferred to have a fling with you while still in the relationship with BF, then chances are she wouldn't hesitate to betray you in the same way.

If I read that post right.

Yes, if she betrayed him, she would do the same to you. She is not relationship material.

no its a very simplistic concept, Kilroy is living in denial. She has a BF and wanted to sleep with you, so shes a slut and you should have just pounded that ass and treat her like one. She obviously cant tell her BF and cant accuse you of rape seein that your an aspie, and Aspies couldnt even fantom the thought of doing or even being mentally capable of accomplishing something of that nature.

Or you could have been just insecured with your size and didnt want to present it to her.

Wow, you're a complete moron.

well im sorry that the concept went right over your head

actually no, have been in this scenario b4 and handled it like so.

The girl is what you call a Shortie, She has a man but sleeps with other guys.

Cause after I did what I did, She felt somewhat guilty and didnt want to make herself appear to others as a complete slut so she simply started making false accusations to find that they couldnt even apply to me as an aspie.

Clearly he didn't want to do anything with her in this situation. There's no need to start insults or even continue posting your same idea.

Kilroy mentioned earlier he's a virgin so obviously has a different idea as to who he wants to do it with first - ie. not a skank behind a guy he's know's back.

Not sure if I would have - would depend on my relationship (& attraction) with her, how I knew the guy (if he was a friend or not) and also what was going on with them. Everyone's different so leave it alone...

Yes obviously you don't learn from your own experience. You don't speak for other Aspies. You don't say anything particularly profound. Kilroy has more sense than you.

We can't really say what is going through this girls head because we don't know her. I'm not against 'f**k buddies' in principle. I can only see it working where there is mutual trust on both sides and neither is in a relationship.

look im not trying to insult the guy, I just cant clearly understand the concepts of his logic. I dont understand how you can grow to virginity. Yes IM a full blown aspie, but the thought of losing my virginity has driven me to become a sexaholic.

Not all aspies are like that. Some are even asexual.

wow

Sex drive can vary though life. Many things can affect that.

I am not an ass hole
I respect people
that's something lost today I find
even here I get shat on for doing what I thought was the right thing (well the ladies at least know I was right to do what I did)
I am not in denial-I won't lose my virginity to just anyone just to lose it
I'd like to actually have a relationship and feelings
not she wants to get off and I am a guy who will do her

not how i work!

I don't believe there is a right thing. Its all perspective. I'm not decadent enough to hold deep convictions, when every deep conviction has objectionable qualities. Do as you like, just don't deny that life is nothing but what is of this Earth; pleasure and happiness is the deepest aspiration, not some otherworldly "higher virtue"

Last edited by Kalister1 on 19 Jan 2008, 7:56 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Sometimes I think this Love and Dating folder has a huge role in destroying mine , just because it seems like everything out there is so tragic and overrated that I have a hard time even taking it seriously anymore.