iDONTflirt

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Ya know, come to think of it-its not entirely try that I dont Flirt Period. I DO flirt with people I know from time to time-but only if I am actually interested/attracted to the person in question. What I DONT do is flirt with strangers because I have discovered through experience that they are just trying to play with me and stroke their ego's and have no intention of anything serious.

I flirt, but since I never could read women, it is just for fun. Every so often I get in trouble though.

If someone flirts with me, I flirt back and it usually works out fine.

But what happens next?

Sometimes nothing happens after that, other times it evolves into a relationship.

It's a game for some women, other women are being serious when they're doing it. I've never been good at serious flirtation b/c I get all nervous when I really do have a crush on a guy. Words skip around in my head.

i dont really flirt as such, i'd just rather make girls laugh as opposed to "hitting on em'" mainly due to the ol' fashioned "sod's law" that she's probs taken by some NT idiot who she's with due to looks etc

For me-if the flirter is a stranger then pretty much always leads to NOWHERE. The only case where it has led to something is because there was already *chemistry* there to begin with so flirting is just part of the courtship ritual. I do sometimes wonder if shrugging off strangers who try to flirt with me might be squandering an oppertunity to at least get to know someone....

If someone flirts with me, I always become paranoid, and slightly annoyed.

Unless I sort of like the person. Then I just become stressed.

Re: the 'Sexual Harrassment' thing...
The larger the company you work for, the more money they have, and the more you can win in a lawsuit, ergo, the more paranoid they get about sexual harrassment, and the sillier the training...it's a vicious circle...

I'm just nice to all the women I work with..I don't know if it's flirting or not, but they always seem to think well of me. I occasionally have periods of confidence when I give a woman 'the look'; not long enough to show romantic interest, not short enough to be a mistake, just long enough to 'visually compliment' her on how she looks. I've spent years trying to get that one just right.. Some like it, some don't.