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21 Apr 2008, 7:48 am

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breakup and let her have a crack at a real man that would actually be interested i her.

So if someone isn't interested in her they are somehow not real?

lol @ u

/obtuse

It's not that, at least not totally, I think. What did you mean by your initial statement?

to over simplify: guys don't know what they want.

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21 Apr 2008, 8:19 am

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as mindboggling as this is.... you obviously don't give a crap about her.... so yes, breakup and let her have a crack at a real man that would actually be interested i her.

A350XWB, Sedaka's correct. You are quite the POS aren't you?

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21 Apr 2008, 8:20 am

Nobody is as callous as you try to make yourself out to be A350XWB. If you think you're being funny by 'spoofing' AS traits then you're not doing a very good job.

If you genuinely are in the situation you say you're in, then I'd advise you to let this girl go and not do any more dating until you realise what a real relationship is about. You are being incredibly unfair to this girl by giving her the impression you are interested in her as a person, when you are really only interested in her abilities. I assure you that no relationship based on academia likes and dislikes is sustainable in the long term.

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21 Apr 2008, 1:19 pm

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I dated her for my own class needs. What I feel for her now is completely different from what I felt for her when I first met her.

Because you're good at Calculus now? *horrified* Please don't date females just for study help... Just find one that will help you as a friend... It's much saner and nicer that way.

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21 Apr 2008, 1:29 pm

KimberKenobi wrote:

A350XWB wrote:

I dated her for my own class needs. What I feel for her now is completely different from what I felt for her when I first met her.

Because you're good at Calculus now? *horrified* Please don't date females just for study help... Just find one that will help you as a friend... It's much saner and nicer that way.

honestly i don't think he is dating girls for study help they are just similar interests. being good at calculus and physics means these girls are intelligent.

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21 Apr 2008, 5:11 pm

miss_e wrote:

KimberKenobi wrote:

A350XWB wrote:

I dated her for my own class needs. What I feel for her now is completely different from what I felt for her when I first met her.

Because you're good at Calculus now? *horrified* Please don't date females just for study help... Just find one that will help you as a friend... It's much saner and nicer that way.

honestly i don't think he is dating girls for study help they are just similar interests. being good at calculus and physics means these girls are intelligent.

It's just a shift in the focus of my romantic life. Calculus will still matter at that stage, but not as much as when I first posted anything about my own romantic despair.

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21 Apr 2008, 7:50 pm

Sedaka wrote:

to over simplify: guys don't know what they want.

So...

breakup and let her have a crack at a real man that would actually be interested i her.
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guys don't know what they want.

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21 Apr 2008, 8:20 pm

A350XWB wrote:

miss_e wrote:

KimberKenobi wrote:

A350XWB wrote:

I dated her for my own class needs. What I feel for her now is completely different from what I felt for her when I first met her.

Because you're good at Calculus now? *horrified* Please don't date females just for study help... Just find one that will help you as a friend... It's much saner and nicer that way.

honestly i don't think he is dating girls for study help they are just similar interests. being good at calculus and physics means these girls are intelligent.

It's just a shift in the focus of my romantic life. Calculus will still matter at that stage, but not as much as when I first posted anything about my own romantic despair.

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wait... this is a website dedicated to people who have a failure to communicate communicating...

Lord, help us...

it still sounds like you're saying that you no longer need help with calculus so now you're done with your girlfriend.

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21 Apr 2008, 8:24 pm

yesplease wrote:

Sedaka wrote:

to over simplify: guys don't know what they want.

So...

breakup and let her have a crack at a real man that would actually be interested i her.
=
guys don't know what they want.

what's the title of this thread?

/obtuse

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22 Apr 2008, 12:47 am

Sedaka wrote:

yesplease wrote:

Sedaka wrote:

to over simplify: guys don't know what they want.

So...

breakup and let her have a crack at a real man that would actually be interested i her.
=
guys don't know what they want.

what's the title of this thread?

/obtuse

"Should I break up?"

I'm still not seeing the link to being "real" btw. :lol:

Is it considered derogatory in the context you used it?

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22 Apr 2008, 12:55 am

yesplease wrote:

Sedaka wrote:

yesplease wrote:

Sedaka wrote:

to over simplify: guys don't know what they want.

So...

breakup and let her have a crack at a real man that would actually be interested i her.
=
guys don't know what they want.

what's the title of this thread?

/obtuse

"Should I break up?"

I'm still not seeing the link to being "real" btw. :lol:

Is it considered derogatory in the context you used it?

aome things are worth pondering, as they never get fed to you.

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22 Apr 2008, 2:56 am

A350XWB wrote:

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I don't understand what physics and calculus have to do with going out with a girl. I'd have to agree wtih Sedaka.

I would NEVER go out with a girl that doesn't know a thing of calculus or Physics I/II because I wouldn't live with a girl that doesn't know a thing about college-level science.

(I predict that, in university, I will date a girl with very similar scientific abilities because I wouldn't date a girl without university-level physics if I am to major in physics in university)

Why does it matter what education they have and what classes they took and what they are good in?

Maybe I should dump my boyfriend since he isn't into Benny & Joon and doesn't know much about Spokane and the fact he never finished high school and go for this truck guy instead since he makes over 200,000 a year and he will give me everything I want.

Seriously I am not that kind of person who goes after people for their money or for what education they have and what they know about my obsessions.

So yeah just go and dump her since she isn't good enough. She deserves someone better.

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22 Apr 2008, 3:04 am

Spokane_Girl wrote:

A350XWB wrote:

hollybee wrote:

I don't understand what physics and calculus have to do with going out with a girl. I'd have to agree wtih Sedaka.

Yeah I agree with you Spokane, that guy's gf obviously deserves someone who is much better, someone who is not going to kick her to the curb the way this guy is obviously doing.

Hey A350XWB, do you think I sound harsh with my words on this? you bet I do, you obviously don't care for her at all, you care only for yourself, she deserves someone better.

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22 Apr 2008, 4:21 am

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aome things are worth pondering, as they never get fed to you.

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fou deviens je lentement six cinq quatre trois deux un change

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22 Apr 2008, 6:26 am

I don't think you should date someone purely for your own academic benefit. While moralistically I suppose that's a step above people who date for purely sexual reasons (as in without any real emotional attachment), it's like comparing Hitler and Stalin, they are both wrong.

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22 Apr 2008, 7:18 am

yesplease wrote:

Sedaka wrote:

aome things are worth pondering, as they never get fed to you.

lentement je deviens fou un deux trois quatre cinq six change
fou deviens je lentement six cinq quatre trois deux un change

qui compte ?

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