Do you find me attractive?

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you're very pretty! i love your hair! i've been dying to do something like that to my hair. it really complements your skin tone too. also pretty blue eyes <3

don't worry, you're young, you'll definitely meet someone!

The Golden Ratio?

http://www.intmath.com/Numbers/mathOfBeauty.php

Back to the subject I think you look pretty, especially your eyes, but to me at least thats only the tip of the iceberg. Your personality would be a much more important factor in your attractiveness to me.

No, I don't find you attractive, not in this photo at least.

That doesn't mean that you are ugly but you need to change your glasses(get something thin).

eyes and lips are good.

Can't say about your body since i can't see it.

Besides,you still have infant traits but this normal since you still 17 . I am sure you ll get sexier in the few next years.

I agree with this statement but you also have to consider that these attributes in the quote are one of the biggest quirks aspies struggle with AKA the social akwardnes.

The social skills factor is a big one in dating and that sort of relationship. I wouldn't worry that you're unattractive. It's just a question of figuring out the right social behavior; I generally don't notice interest from the opposite sex unless someone tells me. I didn't realize my ex was interested in dating me until my best friend told me he thought she was.

From that picture, id date you!
i bet you live on the other side of the planet XD but feel free to contact me. my interests are heavy metal music, gaming and warfare. but i can talk about any topic

I'd date you. You have very nice facial features.

That may be honest LPP, but it is really NOT a nice thing to say to somebody directly
BTW Poeticromance, do you have any pictures of yourself without glasses? Im curious to see what you'd look like w/ bright red lipstick (or better yet a a black (pleated)miniskirt ) Also, the answer to your question in the OP is YES.

The girl is asking about her look whether it's attractive or not so give your opinion directly and don't change the subject to social skills and other stupid stuff because a girl DOESN'T need much social skills to get a bf, the shyest girl of the world can get a bf if she's attractive, Poeticromance is not a guy for god's sake! What she needs is to be more attractive, so giving her tips to become more attractive (physically) would be more useful that giving cliché advices such as 'be social' , a useless advice to an aspie nonetheless.

Agreed. She is asking an honest question and deserves an honest answer. Personally, I hate it when people sugarcoat things and tell me what I want to hear to make me feel better. I would be much further ahead if people were just more honest with me when I asked a question about myself I couldn't answer.

Advice, hmm? You should wear eyeliner, if you feel comfortable wearing it. Mascara too, maybe. Play up your eyes.

I 2nd that. But (cherry red)lipstick wouldnt hurt either .I STILL say try the black pleated mini skirt too .

hey!! we've met before :D we talked about poetry :) I think you're very pretty, I like the freckles; they make you look cute. :D Anyways, I love that you're interested in poetry and romance. To me, that's the true beauty. :D

I really like your style. I think you're pretty.

i think your pretty

That is absolutely not true. The prettiest girl in the world may attract a lot of guys but attraction alone does not a relationship make. Trust me, I know this from experience. Besides, being shy and being aspie are two completely different things. They sometimes overlap, but they are separate.

Dating and having relationships is just as hard for aspie girls as it is for guys. Seems like a big misconception that we have it easier or something.

Improved looks do help, as does the self-confidence that comes with them. But social skills are the big one. Not just talking to people as an alternative to shy silence, but the actual social skills that are so difficult for all of us. You're right that "Be social" is useless advice, but I don't know if anyone said that. What is excellent advice is to commit to learning social skills and understanding other people. You can still be shy and have good social skills.