Will anybody ever like me?

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Oh and we prefer the term, older not old!!

Poof *I Magically changed my age*
I walk up to Ebec11 home and knock on her door,
there stands before her the most perfect male in prime of age that most any girl would drool over,
When she opens the door I smile at her, I say hello Ebec11, I am your mutant for the evening,
care to go out and enjoy a night on the town? all on me I assure you,
as I point over to my limo waiting for us.
dance, wine, music, theater, you name it girl, tonight I make all your fantasies come true.
just be aware of one thing, come the dawning of the new day, the limo becomes a carrot,
its driver a door mouse, the money and richs but leafs on the ground, and I an old man.
but you do have the day and night to enjoy and dream the dream.

lol

95% of us are in the same situation.

The last girl I met said "Oh, I'm not looking for anything serious, just something casual."

Aka, she wanted to use me.

It kinda pissed me off.

How can you have a "casual" relationship anyways
People are weird sometimes, though I find overall guys are slightly weirder. (for me at least)

Have you checked out 'Aspie Affection'?

Somebody likes you.

I hate casual relationship! I don't ever want that

I have hope for you ebec. The problem is, relationships aren't magic. You have to put yourself into it and prepare for painful things like rejections or breakups. Some ppl let all these problems dictate how relationships are for them when really it was those ppl that did it to them or it wasn't meant to be.

So you just need to ask yourself, am I emotionally prepared? I can't see why any guy would not like you. You just have to get involved or do some serious communicating with your person of interest. Before you do though, don't go thinking that this relationship is going to make you happy in the end. You need to like yourself enough to know that "they" will like you. Because even if they don't, there's always another one out there.

Easy said then done but you just have to get in there and come up with a plan. Overall you seem to be a pleasant and nice in your posts and you're pretty so..if they don't like you then that's tough luck for them. You just move on.

I want a relationship because I want a life partner - I don't want to struggle like my mom has all my life (mind you, f***ed up father who STILL won't pay child support isn't helping money situation)

I can assure you you won't find a life partner at 16.

I know, but you have to start SOMEWHERE

Well isn't it 4:1 the ratio of males to females that have AS.

So the odds should be in your favour. There seems to be mostly males on this web site.

So why not quit complaining and look for a guy that is a similar age and lives in your area. Message some people.

Also just be friends before anyting until you are both comfortable about commiting to a serious relationship.

I'm sure there will be heaps of guys interested in you.

I'm not complaining, I'm asking
I do have a crush on a guy, but I'm so scared he won't like me after he finds out I'm Autistic