Tell me girls, what do you want in a guy?

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How the mermaid came to be known as the Little Mermaid.

LOL!! ! OMG THIS THREAD!! !! !! Pi-cky

Well at least he's not alone in not being able to find the g-spot...

-sweet
-introverted
-unique sense of style (i.e., doesn't wear A&F/GAP t-shirts, jeans, Nikes, etc. and other stereotypical boring mainstream frat ensemble)
-odd/quirky/dorky/self-effacing humor
-creative thinker, good at or enjoys solving problems

Just speaking from experience, kid ... just speaking from experience ... all else being equal, any woman will choose a man with money over a man with no money, or a man who is willing to spend what he has over a man who will spend nothing of his own. You know it, I know it, and everybody else knows it too.

By the way ... nice avatar ... I like the new necklace.

in addition to getting along well and having similar views:
in a guy - attracted to him and a possibility for mutual attraction (not gay and at least somewhat feminine)
in a girl - attracted to her and a possibility for mutual attraction (not straight and feminine)

these criterion (or criteria) have become important because of me being attracted to people who could not be attracted to me.
I am bi and recently I have been attracted to five people only one of them could become more than a friend.

the people:

D - gay guy
C - gay guy
M - gay guy
T - straight girl
H - lesbian girl

I referred to them by there first initials (also what my brother and I call them when we think we might be overheard).

It's important for any woman to have a man who is kind, caring and attentive; a man who is attractive and a great lover; a man who knows how to dress and groom himself; a man who treats you like a lady and is a great dancer; a man who loves to cook for you and is good at doing his share of the housework (and yours, if need be); and a man who is wealthy and happily shares his wealth with you without being asked.

But most of all, it's very important that none of these men should never meet each other!

And dont forget...........on top of everything else he should of course be Tall.

Except for an element of humor, this thread is now redundant. You guys seem to be more interested in repeating the same stereotypes than actually learning anything.

yes

Id want a guy who:
Nice
has at least some sense of humor even if its not a lot, so I can poke fun at him
Humble
Loyal(essential)
Honest(essential)
Accepting
Isnt strongly traditional(can be a little tho)
Realiable
Is not an arrogant as*hole
Not overly social
Intelligent

why do girls specifically state they dont like arrogant as*holes yet i see most girls chasing after these guys everywhere i go?

I mean look around girls are like going nuts for the biggest ass's on the planet and there in hot demand trust me ive seen girls love those arrognat pretty sexy dudes its there fav thing ever im sikc of the double speak from women on here

similar politics??? lmfao! u make me laugh...

why does that make you laugh?

Ive had relationships with people with different political beliefs and it led to big arguments and a lot of anger on both sides.
I think if someone does not care about politics or is NT it may not be an issue. But I think any man who had different politics to me would find me very hard to live with as most conversation I make is about politics and philosophy.

I do not intend to be a silent ornament for a man, who is not interested in what I have to say, therefore some common ground is needed.

yeah i agree, it'll make you argue, but you would sooooooo dump a guy for voting for the wrong guy/girl???? (this isn't a real serious question) im pretty sure an aspie bloke would'nt mind having a "good" arguement with you over politics, because at the end of the day, poltics is bs anyways

Politics might be BS, but the values that someone holds are not. And our political beliefs tend to correspond with our values so...

I wouldn't dump a guy for voting for the "wrong guy/girl" but it would factor in our overall compatibility at least to some extent. For instance I went out with a guy who told me later on that he voted for Bush. It made my stomach turn, but I got over it enough. Still, that relationship died within a couple of months..