CAn I just have a moan about my husband please?

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23 Sep 2008, 6:21 pm

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Maybe I should not use AS as an excuse for his behaviour either.

People on this form seem to be very high thinking individuals, I know he does not like me, but I hoped it was his AS, maybe he just does not like me!

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23 Sep 2008, 6:21 pm

good night, it is far too late for me!

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23 Sep 2008, 6:29 pm

Are you sure he's not Schizoid? Sounds more like it to me.

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23 Sep 2008, 6:31 pm

in-a-dark-tunnel wrote:

0_equals_true wrote:

spirtuality and morals are two different things.

Yes that is what he says. Drinking is not a sin....etc... he still has insight even though I in the world sees his behaviour as inappropreate.

He does not care about what people in the world think, he is interested in the spirtual............. But I am of this world and I feel like he puts a vice on my head and tightens it with his souting..........

sometimes, lack of AS understanding is the problem
but it isn't here
I am a spiritual person too, but there is a big difference then being spiritual and being a good person

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23 Sep 2008, 6:32 pm

Postperson wrote:

Are you sure he's not Schizoid? Sounds more like it to me.

BS. You can't make a diagnosis from this post, and there is nothing there that indicates schizoid.

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23 Sep 2008, 6:38 pm

What indicates AS?

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23 Sep 2008, 6:42 pm

Postperson wrote:

What indicates AS?

Nothing. This isn't a diagnosis.

Listen this over defensiveness is pointless. In all groups there are f****d up people get used to it.

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23 Sep 2008, 6:45 pm

Postperson wrote:

What indicates AS?

yes good observation.....many, and i do mean many women hear about AS...apply to their husbands in a failing "emotionless" relationship and diagnose their husbands with it in a vain attempt to explain why their husband has fallen out of love with them.

many relationships fail and AS is the new "excuse" that justifies a relationship break up.

these women are really in need of "help" and have a need to connect with others, to rationalise and explain their marital woes through AS

it has to be AS.
cause it cant be their fault.

you need to ask the first question......has he been diagnosed?
the answer is always "no but i know he has it."

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23 Sep 2008, 6:52 pm

you must have a different definition of 'always' to me.

Wow this section is usually passive aggressive for other reasons…

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23 Sep 2008, 6:53 pm

donkey wrote:

Postperson wrote:

What indicates AS?

very wise

and so so true

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23 Sep 2008, 6:55 pm

true fantasy

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23 Sep 2008, 6:57 pm

0_equals_true wrote:

Listen this over defensiveness is pointless. In all groups there are f**** up people get used to it.

The only person being over defensive is you.

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23 Sep 2008, 6:58 pm

ok i did make the comment that postperson made a good observation in the context that most women dont get one as they self diagnose As in their husbands.

i wasnt taking sides in the little side spat you's two were having.

and if it did appear that i was i do genuinely apologise.

perhaps you too can get back into it?

apologies.

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23 Sep 2008, 7:01 pm

?

I'm not having any sort of engagement with anyone. I just made a post and O equals true replied hostiley and swore at me. In a second post he swore at me again. He/she seems to be trying to dominate and control the thread which is a rather pointless exercise.

Personally I don't care.

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23 Sep 2008, 7:01 pm

Postperson wrote:

0_equals_true wrote:

Listen this over defensiveness is pointless. In all groups there are f**** up people get used to it.

The only person being over defensive is you.

Right so I should join the lynch mob?

While we are living paranoid, how about we question our own diagnosis for a minute?

Lets face it you guys are generalising about the posts made my 'nuerotypicals'. They can actually vary.

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23 Sep 2008, 7:03 pm

Postperson wrote:

I never swore at you. Inflection isn't easy with text. Yes it is pointless caring on this argument with you I will stop.

Try reading the original post again if you think she self-diagnosed.

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