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You mean norwegianman1972 is misogynist for objecting against lelia's post and probably me too...I think norwegianman1972 would object the same if lelia was a male too , never thought it that way? So you are assuming that he's misogynist just because he's male criticizing a post posted by a female? ....theroically this assumption is sexist too , but you are assuming too much I guess.

If you review norwegianman1972 , he said nothing sexist ...he was jut being angry on lelia's post. Someone said that norwegianman1972 hadn't the right to question her diagnosis , lelia also hadn't the right to question JM about his morals (maybe that wasn't her intention but her post sounded like if she 's questioning whether he's serious or just harasser)


Btw, It would be better if you name the people that you are attacking than just subtly attack nameless 'some'.

Besides, you just put oil on fire .... things were going well: lelia clarified her post and norwegian greeted her clarification and JM2008 was cool about the whole issue. Your ranting input was completely unnecessary and badly timed.

True but I'm only respecting the rules here on WP. I don't think we're suppose to name members here while posting something negative about them unless it's in response to that name. So LPP and norwegianman1972 get over it! It's not as though every response by a female is directly putting the OP down simply because he's a guy. I would've stated something similar but not because of the OP being a guy just the way he comes across a thread with only one question. Nothing I would LITERALLY take seriously.

Anyway, I apologize if it comes off dramatic. But I am finding reactions differently when it's a female posting. Not all threads but a significant amount.

It's like, be prepared for attacks if you should decide to give feedback or post a question that seems so insignificant or petty because you're a girl and you have it all so f**k off!

This theory "women have it all" is getting old and it's a poor excuse if it's indeed that which is being used to find reasoning as for an attack. If it's not then I again apologize. Anyway, it looks like the thread as blown over but this is getting old. I see a lot more worse debasements than what lelia posted. I don't see why she has to apologize if enough guys do the same thing.

Again , you are supposing that our reaction toward lelia is based on her gender , our reaction was against the content to the post itself , talking about myself if it was posted by a guy my reaction would be the same, I am honestly rude with everyone and not just with girls. norwegianman1972 is a new member , there's no way that you could know how he would react toward a guy if it would be differently that his reactions toward a girl. So your problem is with me alone I guess, I don't know norwegianman1972 but I think you are assuming too much about norwegianman1972 ...based on what? based on that one thread?

You are supposing us that we are sexist simply because Lelia posted something that we didn't like (and sexist if you ask me) and it happened that she's female , we reacted against this post so you conclude that we are reacting like this just because she's female. Try to forget for a moment that Lelia is female and that me and norwegianman1972 are males , or you are unable to do that?

If Johnhopkin posted the same post oh believe me...I would be even be more rude toward the post.





I argue everyone ....ask the male members if you don't believe me ....ask Maku , ask Vader , ask Hopkins ...., for some reason you think that I only target girls while I target any post that I find it silly , I am not saying it's a good quality but it's how I react in forums and has nothing to do with the posters' genders but it seems that YOU only notice and remember my replies toward females.

There's no rule that prohibits debates between 2 of opposite genders. What? I can't argue with a girl about something without been accused as sexist by you?



No one talked about theories here and you are going way off topic. No one has said that 'women have it all' , I never said 'women have it all' , show me where I said that . Please mind your assumptions.

I think lelia is adult enough to know when to apologize and when not , besides it was a justification more than apologize , she just justified her post clarifying that her post wasn't personally intended toward the OP.

All what you are doing is shooting accusations right and left.

What women? -_-




Oh I see, now we're trying to be a famous comedian here. /:









































































































Kidding!

lelia and shadofme , what are you trying to prove here?




cute, no? ^-^

I am not sure if I got this right. Because we critizice a sexist post posted by a woman, you say that WE are sexist? That doesnt make sense. That is like saying that a black person who is the victim of racism is a racist because he protests against being discriminated against. Do you really think it is ok to harrass men? If, som, you are a sexist!

From her later post, I understand that it was not her intention to be sexist. As she wrote it, though, it clearly was sexist/chauvinistic. By the way, it is clearly you that cannot get over this. I had actually considered myself finished wiyth this thread, but your sexist posts forces me to answer.

Actually, I think this thread, if anything, shows that she thinks it is ok to harass men. One thing is not commenting on something, quite another is to actively support discrimination. Double standards are bad enough, its even worse if you actively defend it.

but of course, if a girl posts it, 30 men will reply saying OK HERES MY EMAIL, if a guy posts it, he gets nothing.

ex: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt73218.html

even older men reply to her and shes 17 LOL

^ absolutely, some men need to learn to have some dignity and not to whore themselves to the lowest level for ....anyone.

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