This is off topic but wanted to make a one-post response...
Kilroy wrote:
apsies don't have the drive to do much (in rare cases they do) but most expect everything to come to them
I don't find AS alone attractive 9 alot of times its unattractive, as a lot of AS people are very annoying and very, very close minded and boring
While that is true, there are benefits as well. Most NTs, if they dropped their surfaces, would be every bit as annoying, close minded, etc. as AS. We're just real.. real honest and really what we feel. Traumatized, we act traumatized. Depressed, we act depressed. But there are upsides to being with real people. When you get close to NTs often they are quite different underneath than what the people they work with think they are. In general, the NTs have surfaces that are inaccurate portrayals of what is underneath. Sometimes the difference between surface and insides is great. Most of the time, they are incredibly boring under their surfaces. AS might be weird, etc. But their minds are alive and they are real.
Kilroy wrote:
I look for other things I suppose in people, the disliking of my weirdness obviously wouldn't make me seek out someone like me to be romantically involved with now would it?
NTs make good romantic partners. I'm not as nice to my partners as they are to me... I'm often self-centered, disconnected from the relationship, tempestuous. It baffles me why they put up with me. In relationships, NTs are saintly, patient, generous people compared to AS traits.