ToadOfSteel wrote:
Orbyss wrote:
I have nothing against overweight. Obese is a problem, though. But a pudgy guy can be no less sexy than anything else, in my opinion. Lots of women find Jack Black sexy. Again, it's all in the personality.
What would be your dividing line between overweight and obese?
That can totally depend on the guy; his frame, how he holds himself, and sometimes his fat distribution. Pot bellies generally aren't obese by any stretch -- my dad had one of those, a 'beer belly' -- but probably any height above 350 starts me to get worried about potential health issues. The way it looks is more of an immediate warning than an outright "Ewww". It tends to shock me, and I don't like the idea that I'd potentially pity someone I was with for
any reason, obesity or otherwise.
But, even then, depending on the personality, I may be willing to help with motivation and exercise if need be, to make things healthier. It would just having a working partnership of trust and willingness.