How to meet non-crazy women?

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Donald Duck

Hahaha did anyone here ever see Yan Can Cook?
I have these wonderful memories of him saying "Peking Duck"

Check out the laddertheory website http://www.laddertheory.com/ratingsystem.htm

Mustang are a serious gas guzzler man, 15mpg in a city like London, I hope you got less economical automatic transmission. That will give the future NT generation a special treat of some CO2 gas, the right bunch of tossers, I tell thee.

I once considered a Chev Camaro, but I decided against it, didn't want to accused of trying to be different by the NTs.. That pisses me off more then I hive full of bees.[/quote]

I can quite believe there's a ladder theory of some sort at play, what with me being an Aspie who's an extreme systemiser. Even if the ranking on a person's ladder is intuitively decided, on criteria such as power and attraction that are in fact unquantifiable.

It's people who are at the bottom of their local, intuitively ranked ladder who end up looking for love or, like I used to be in the habit of doing, at least positive heterosexual interaction on the Internet. You can picture the results.

I think though, because of my Aspie traits and how they make courtship challenging, I'm at an arbitrarily low position on the ladder. A false position. I found clear patterns in the women I met online that might have contributed to them looking to the Internet for positive heterosexual interaction (in fact a great many of them were bisexual). These patterns being geographic and cultural.

Two things:

1) Was newly divorced when I got that car - wasn't thinking about gas mileage.

2) Gas was cheaper then.

But that's OK, I still like it. Don't do much driving except to work, gaming, and the occassional trip home.

Actually, women like the ones you describe seem to be very few and far between.


Actually yes, that is true of AS people to an extent. I myself never gave a damn about most aspects of popular culture.
And regarding the AS community, I find that the very high number of men with AS as opposed to the very low number of women with AS renders the search near-pointless if I were to look specifically for an AS girlfriend.
My whole life, I've never had any kind of real desire to have a girlfriend. And taking into account my 7+ years of research/observations on the matter, I honestly do not see why I should even bother looking these days. Too much BS in exchange for not enough reward.

If a woman is 30 something to 40 something, and have not been married or a short marriage.. odds are there is some sort of mental issue... That would be for NT's.

Something I have noticed with guys I have worked with over the last 8-9 years or so.

I would take a HFA over a NT in most cases. Rather del with someone like me with eccentric behaviors and such (aspie/autie) than deal with someone with eccentric behaviors (NT), such as the drama and excessive social stuff.

...and here I always thought you were a silly goose. Shame on me for my ornithological folly. *halo*

Dee_, I'm not sure why you associating being single with mental illness. Care to elaborate?


M.

I dunno,but I noticed that unmarried women are usually successful and have extreme strong personality.

And you will be my main course for dinner!

Now keep your head still, I don't want there to be a mess.....

^ and I was wondering why female humans find me delicious....

I don't know, perhaps because it is fowl..

Can't say for sure..but the breast is the best part!

Wonder if I should cut off the pecker lest it distract my females guests....

8O

Thanks for demonstrating that I actually have a dirty mind...

Sometimes when I read these posts about women, I feel as if I'm reading about a completely different species from myself.

Where do you guys meet all these crazy, money grubbing, one-dimensional sex addicts? I don't know anyone like that - unless my female friends all cover it up.

It's also ironic that the aspie women here all seem like awesome girlfriend material. (Myself included). We're funny, laid-back, cool as cucumbers, - yet - aren't we by definition, "crazy"?

All people act a little crazy when they are in a relationship, looking for a relationship or leaving a relationship.

Anyway - its always been my opinion that people who THINK too much are the ones who have the hardest time finding love. Do you guys have friends who ONLY talk about their love life - yet they never seem to actually HAVE a love life? I have one friend who is now 43 and she's been like that since junior high school. So sad - but she hasn't had a real boyfriend since she was about 18. But its ALL she talks about!! ! How she met this guy or that guy...does she have a chance...

Then again, she has unrealistic standards. I think she's still holding out for Tom Cruise. (Specifically, the Tom Cruise from that bad 80's football movie he did.)

Love is irrational and emotional and almost always unplanned. The more you try to intellectualize and analyze it, the more elusive it's going to be.

I don't think anyone in the history of civilization has ever truly found, met and fallen in love with their soul mate while they were looking. Usually, it comes at a very inconvenient time and place.

I wonder how many girls you guys have blown off because you were holding out for Jessica Alba and you had just the plan to get her?

buy an electroencephalographic recorder and test them at the first meeting?

i think crazy women are more fun than normal ones.

I think I'd rather be around a crazy person (not psychotic though) than a "normal" person. I mean it seems to me the kind of women you guys want are stoic stepford wives who obey your every command.

I never really understood the herd mentality of what it means to be "normal".

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I think a lot of it has to do with where you look. A major problem with online sites is anytime someone can't get a date after repeated tries, they turn to the web to continue their search. This means anytime a normal sane individual goes onto an online dating site, they'll be bombarded with unwanted attention, and then promptly return to hooking up with their peers and coworkers.

That's a major reason I took down my dating profile. Those who didn't have major physical health problems more than made up for it in the loony department. I'd rather try and pick up a date at my church, a local event, or in one of my classes. Really, I realized it was best to just quit worrying about it, enjoy life, get out there, and someone will undoubtedly come along. In the meantime, I can enjoy the ego boost anytime I get a friendly wink.