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LePetitPrince
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06 May 2009, 12:53 pm

Don't worry, Muslims already see you inferior.....



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06 May 2009, 12:56 pm

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Don't worry, Muslims already see you inferior.....

all what i want is to relive the best days in Jewish History when in 8th to 12th Century Muslim Spain when Jews, Muslims and Christians were like brothers, i do not want to be a bigot like Michael Savage



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06 May 2009, 1:04 pm

come one everyone give this guy a break ! !! !! !! !! !! !! ! hes an aspie like us of course hes gonna make mistakes and word things wrong.


I happen to share some of his interests such as

Sephardic History

And to the OP id be happy to have an online discussin about this sometime



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06 May 2009, 1:18 pm

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You can be anti-zionist without making yourself sub-human. Or making a caste out of jews.


Yes i am Anti Zionist and i do support Palestine, but i am not making myself Subhuman, i am trying to Improve relationships with Muslims and Christians and prove that we Jews are not presecuters like Cardinal Cisneros or Torquemada.


But I am not sure why you want to make yourself appear 'inferior'. Probably you mean that you want to appear that your'e just equal and not superior?



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06 May 2009, 1:25 pm

Yeah maybe I was too harsh.

BTW, I believe that Israel has done many horrific things in its insistance on being a state and that fact is indeed responsible for a lot of anti-semitism. I have no patience for any sadistic actions carried out, much less for those done hypocritically in the name of religion.


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06 May 2009, 1:37 pm

What causes antisemitism is that certain jews are indeed arrogant and too obsessed with their own jewishness and all injustices done to jewish people while basically ignoring all the other tragedies of human history. A jew can be born in Stockholm by swedish jewish parents who lived in Sweden for 200 years and one day realize he's so "proud" of being jewish that he has to go become a settler in Israel.

I met bad jews and I met good jews and the good jews are those who don't make a big thing out of being jewish. They don't obsess with it.
If I met an italian or british person who walked around all day talking about their own nationality and history and ethnic identity with everyone they met, I would want to punch him in the face.

The exception is "ultra-orthodox", I met a lot of them and as long as you're somewhat interested in judaism they will treat you in a very nice way. The worst jews I met are ashkenaz conservatives and "modern" orthodox from Sweden, Denmark, Britain etc. These are the ones who don't even want non-jews to visit their synagogues and act both arrogant and superior. They don't rule the world with a secret conspiracy but they do have smaller communities based on nepotism and elitism on a local level.

I know of a polish jewish holocaust survivor who was thrown out of the Holocaust museum in Stockholm because the conservative jews of mainly german ancestry (who lived safely in Sweden while jews were slaughtered all over Europe) didn't like that she thought it was wrong that people had to pay to witness some of what she had been through.
Ashkenazim of german origin are in my experience unbelievably arrogant and ignorant. I feel a sting of antisemitism when dealing with those but my good experiences of "ultra" orthodox kind of makes up for it and prevents me from becoming totally antisemitic based on just select experiences.

So basically you could say I like the two extremes, either secularised atheist jews or jews in black hats and coats. I really dislike the identity-obsessed and "nationalist" jews in between. Those who are basically like any other person in the country where they live but make an extremely big thing out of being jewish, act elitist, act superior. I also think that a "Salmander", "Berliner" or "Posener" will generally be a bigger as*hole than a "Kazimierska" or a "Gwrtz".
It's a well known fact in Sweden that when the polish jews immigrated in the early 1900 and after WWII, they were treated with racism and skepticism by the already established and very arrogant german-ashkenazi families dating back to Aaron Isaac, the first jew in Sweden.
If you read books by Isac B Singer or actually talk to people who lived in pre-Hitler Warsaw, you learn about how much certain jews actually thought of themselves as "better" than others.

The cause of a lot of antisemitism can be traced back to a few german jewish elite families and their descendents today.



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06 May 2009, 1:44 pm

Zoonic wrote:
What causes antisemitism is that certain jews are indeed arrogant and too obsessed with their own jewishness and all injustices done to jewish people while basically ignoring all the other tragedies of human history. A jew can be born in Stockholm by swedish jewish parents who lived in Sweden for 200 years and one day realize he's so "proud" of being jewish that he has to go become a settler in Israel.

I met bad jews and I met good jews and the good jews are those who don't make a big thing out of being jewish. They don't obsess with it.
If I met an italian or british person who walked around all day talking about their own nationality and history and ethnic identity with everyone they met, I would want to punch him in the face.

The exception is "ultra-orthodox", I met a lot of them and as long as you're somewhat interested in judaism they will treat you in a very nice way. The worst jews I met are ashkenaz conservatives and "modern" orthodox from Sweden, Denmark, Britain etc. These are the ones who don't even want non-jews to visit their synagogues and act both arrogant and superior.

I know of a polish jewish holocaust survivor who was thrown out of the Holocaust museum in Stockholm because the conservative jews of mainly german ancestry (who lived safely in Sweden while jews were slaughtered all over Europe) didn't like that she thought it was wrong that people had to pay to witness some of what she had been through.
Ashkenazim of german origin are in my experience unbelievably arrogant and ignorant. I feel a sting of antisemitism when dealing with those but my good experiences of "ultra" orthodox kind of makes up for it and prevents me from becoming totally antisemitic based on just select experiences.


An example of a Bad Jew is Michael Savage



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06 May 2009, 2:29 pm

Laconvivencia wrote:
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You can be anti-zionist without making yourself sub-human. Or making a caste out of jews.


Yes i am Anti Zionist and i do support Palestine, but i am not making myself Subhuman, i am trying to Improve relationships with Muslims and Christians and prove that we Jews are not presecuters like Cardinal Cisneros or Torquemada.


Wait I'm confused, improve relationships by.......?


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06 May 2009, 2:38 pm

So what if he wants to date a "pure jew" who cares... Let the man be and stop whining that he's a "racist" because he wants to date a jew and jew only. He has his reason, he tries to explain, people in this forum twist it around, and start whining that's the dude is a racist.



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06 May 2009, 3:00 pm

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Ok mark2410, you were right about that : He IS racist.


lol, thank you

this thread is most amusing



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06 May 2009, 3:10 pm

I am not a racist!! !! !!



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06 May 2009, 3:25 pm

LOL, I'm sorry but this thread has gotten a bit funny as I look through it now being in the love and dating section and no one expects the Spanish Inquisition.... < <


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06 May 2009, 5:08 pm

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Exactly. I don't think the OP had the intention of making this thread in order to spark a religious or ethnic debate. Its unfair to change the crux of the motivation for starting the thread (finding someone he feels meets his criteria for being a partner) to an argument of ideals.

This is a a statement of someone who correlates a relationship along the lines of his faith. If you do not agree with him doing this, then you are within your rights. However pay him the same respect you would expect if you revealed any preferences of your own. If you prefer having a white partner over a black partner, does that make you a racist?


Think about it, if his criteria had been girls who had dark features as a preference over light features, would you be attacking his preference? Probably not. Just because he used the word "Jew" everyone now feels they have a duty to add their two cents worth and to start a debate about who is right and wrong.



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07 May 2009, 5:30 am

why do americans excuse this sort of bigotry if its wrapped up in religious terms?



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07 May 2009, 8:53 am

Well Jewish people I know told me that it's fairly important for a Jewish man to marry a Jewish woman if he wants his children to be Jewish, because the religion is passed down from the mother. To be honest I can understand only wanting to be with someone from your own religion. I am an atheist and I have friends who are very christian who honestly believe that I will go to hell. I can see how they could find it quite upsetting if they were with someone who had completely different beliefs.



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07 May 2009, 3:49 pm

Are there any Jewish girls here of arab origin???