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AA is back.

I'm sorry I did not understand the question.

Honestly, the site is too difficult to use. I just go to a competitor and put up with NT nonsense.

I would be much more inclined to use it if there were more options in creating the profile (as in, reasonable text formatting, now it's just too jumbled), and more capacity to use links. (Even if you limit the domains to major competitors or such, it'll still work better.)

Because said guy doesn't know my background, he believes he will impress me by making nasty comments about some "loser", or make a crack about Autism, or something along those lines - generally putting down a minority or somebody else to make himself look good. It would be almost funny if it didn't make me so angry. And it happens to me ALL THE TIME. I swear, I could count on two hands the number of guys who have said this sort of stuff trying to impress me.


Rolls eyes shakes head in disbelief. Do these men "improve" as they get older? Or do they just get older?

when a guy looks at me I believe he would probably see a popular, attractive NT girl (not trying to wave my own flag - I think I do come across this way on first impression because just in the last year I suddenly made many friends). He would have no way of knowing that a. I am AS and ADHD, b.

Well your young and attractive so even if you where that loser/weirdo autistic stereotype they will still try to crack on to you, I'd say even more so as it gives these unpleasant people something to brag about to their = boorish mates!

Welcome to Brisbane.

PS never heard an autistic joke in my life something to do with staring?

Only knew b here and your the 1 st to repond to me thank you! Tried aspie affection and am completley ignored their that's OK I think it's rather amusing.

have been reading this thread with an increasing level of disappointment, to say the least. I'm a woman in my early fifties, who is pretty nice looking myself, although not looking for a relationship any more. I'm finding this thread disappointing because it seems like the values I'm seeing here are just as shallow as those of NTs: you want to find a pretty girl, just like the NT guys do. How many of you (who feel that's important) are really good looking guys, in fact? I have seen so many men of all kinds of neurological makeups screw themselves up, over the decades I've been observing such behavior, because they get stuck with this "I've got to pull a babe, or I'll look like I'm settling" kind of crap. When a man grows up enough to start looking beneath the surface, then is when he's more likely to meet a woman who can do the same.

Hey I'd love "hot" looking girl friend, though where not all that way inclined, for me "looks" neat tidy and presentable is more than enough. Any how many "hot" looking woman seem shallow and nasty to me (though not all of them of cause).

have been reading this thread with an increasing level of disappointment, to say the least. I'm a woman in my early fifties, who is pretty nice looking myself, although not looking for a relationship any more. I'm finding this thread disappointing because it seems like the values I'm seeing here are just as shallow as those of NTs: you want to find a pretty girl, just like the NT guys do. How many of you (who feel that's important) are really good looking guys, in fact? I have seen so many men of all kinds of neurological makeups screw themselves up, over the decades I've been observing such behavior, because they get stuck with this "I've got to pull a babe, or I'll look like I'm settling" kind of crap. When a man grows up enough to start looking beneath the surface, then is when he's more likely to meet a woman who can do the same.


This really got me thinking, we have difficulty understanding what NT's are on about, though I'm quite perplexed how a WP person (I thought nice guy was part of our "problem") could accuse some one of being (physically) unattractive . I see beauty even in "ugly" women.

I tell you what is seriously hot for me having a GF (still hasn't happened!!) in my living room playing Xbox, both (??) laughing at the exaggerated stereotypes (thinks) Gears of War. Where are all the hardcore women gamers, their doesnt seem to be that many around my age group, though their seems to be quite a few of them in the early to mid 20's, not even sure (???) if it's appropriate to respond to women in that age group.

PS what is typically defined as physically "attractive" well I find most of the Women on Aspie Affection some what to quite attractive.

As for "nice guys," if you're only nice to the pretty ones, you're NOT a nice guy.


Well I'm nice , told so by psychologists (husband/wife team) they said I was a very sensitive person! Only diagnoised after a "mental" breakdown in my mid 20's , I thought WTF are you on about, I was not behaving or feeling to sensitive at that time I can tell you.

So their are aspie men who are not senstive/nice?

Most of the guys I didn't respond to on Aspie Affection because they were either too far or too intense. Also some guy with a nickname of something like "always_stoned" I obviously wasn't going to respond to.

Most of the guys I didn't respond to on Aspie Affection because they were either too far or too intense. Also some guy with a nickname of something like "always_stoned" I obviously wasn't going to respond to.

Aussiebloke OK???

It *is* a bit hard when you're on the other side of the world from me