nick007
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04 Oct 2010, 3:48 am
04 Oct 2010, 7:04 am
04 Oct 2010, 7:15 am
sluice wrote:
Has Chronos found a guy, gotten married, and had kids yet? Or did the original get completely blown out of the water?
Yeah, sorry about that. I didn't mean for it go get this blown out of proportion. D:
bewarethebob - I did/do want advice. It's just that at the time, I wasn't in a state where I could receive it if that makes any sense. At this point, I'd be happy if everyone just got back to the original topic and left everything alone. I'm sorry if I hurt people in the process, it was unintentional.
04 Oct 2010, 3:35 pm
Erisad wrote:
sluice wrote:
Has Chronos found a guy, gotten married, and had kids yet? Or did the original get completely blown out of the water?
Yeah, sorry about that. I didn't mean for it go get this blown out of proportion. D:
bewarethebob - I did/do want advice. It's just that at the time, I wasn't in a state where I could receive it if that makes any sense. At this point, I'd be happy if everyone just got back to the original topic and left everything alone. I'm sorry if I hurt people in the process, it was unintentional.
thanks erisad.
and @Laz. yeah...americans have a real strange system...
04 Oct 2010, 3:46 pm
bewarethebob wrote:
Erisad wrote:
sluice wrote:
Has Chronos found a guy, gotten married, and had kids yet? Or did the original get completely blown out of the water?
Yeah, sorry about that. I didn't mean for it go get this blown out of proportion. D:
bewarethebob - I did/do want advice. It's just that at the time, I wasn't in a state where I could receive it if that makes any sense. At this point, I'd be happy if everyone just got back to the original topic and left everything alone. I'm sorry if I hurt people in the process, it was unintentional.
thanks erisad.
and @Laz. yeah...americans have a real strange system...
You're welcome.
Yeah, dating in the US is really difficult simply based on what is expected of American men and women. I don't know how it is in other countries though. Maybe I and others with AS would stand a better chance in Europe or something. :/
04 Oct 2010, 4:28 pm
nick007
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04 Oct 2010, 4:45 pm
As I said before; I think Aspies would stand a much better chance if we had arranged marriages. That goes on in some other countries. If I could easily move to another country; I would go to one that has em. The only way I could ever get a woman is if she was pressured into it. American women will never give me a chance unless they are on something 
04 Oct 2010, 4:56 pm
04 Oct 2010, 5:00 pm
nick007 wrote:
As I said before; I think Aspies would stand a much better chance if we had arranged marriages. That goes on in some other countries. If I could easily move to another country; I would go to one that has em. The only way I could ever get a woman is if she was pressured into it. American women will never give me a chance unless they are on something
But I thought that arranged marriages had to be set up by the two families when you were a small child. I don't know if they do arrange marriages for those who enter the country as an adult. Even in some countries, arranged marriages aren't as popular as they used to be due to the Westernization taking place in a lot of countries these days. >.>
I'm sorry you feel that way.
hale_bopp - I love accents. Especially British, Irish, and Spanish accents. German accents can be sexy depending on the person. NZ? You live in New Zealand? Or am I completely off the mark again?
04 Oct 2010, 5:03 pm
nick007 wrote:
As I said before; I think Aspies would stand a much better chance if we had arranged marriages. That goes on in some other countries. If I could easily move to another country; I would go to one that has em. The only way I could ever get a woman is if she was pressured into it. American women will never give me a chance unless they are on something
I think a common misconception about arranged marriages is that women are forced into them. That's not always the case. In fact, many women request for their families to arrange a marriage for them.
When done right, arranged marriages are practical and a much better way to find companionship than our American way.
04 Oct 2010, 5:04 pm
Janissy wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Most people have a better chance in other countries because they have an exotic appeal.
A lot of NZ men don't like my accent, but overseas men LOVE it.
A lot of NZ men don't like my accent, but overseas men LOVE it.
This is very true. Moving adds instant exoticness.
If moving to another country is out (and it often is), moving to a different part of your own country can still give a touch of exotic. This works best in physically large countries since having a different accent is part of the appeal.
Lol, but I like Pennsylvania. I would move to a different city in PA because I like the people there better than back home. Obviously, it isn't exotic enough since it's a college town and most of the students are from another part of PA or NJ.
04 Oct 2010, 5:04 pm
Erisad wrote:
nick007 wrote:
As I said before; I think Aspies would stand a much better chance if we had arranged marriages. That goes on in some other countries. If I could easily move to another country; I would go to one that has em. The only way I could ever get a woman is if she was pressured into it. American women will never give me a chance unless they are on something
But I thought that arranged marriages had to be set up by the two families when you were a small child. I don't know if they do arrange marriages for those who enter the country as an adult. Even in some countries, arranged marriages aren't as popular as they used to be due to the Westernization taking place in a lot of countries these days. >.>
Depends entirely on the country and culture when dealing with arranged marriages.
04 Oct 2010, 5:06 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Erisad wrote:
nick007 wrote:
As I said before; I think Aspies would stand a much better chance if we had arranged marriages. That goes on in some other countries. If I could easily move to another country; I would go to one that has em. The only way I could ever get a woman is if she was pressured into it. American women will never give me a chance unless they are on something
But I thought that arranged marriages had to be set up by the two families when you were a small child. I don't know if they do arrange marriages for those who enter the country as an adult. Even in some countries, arranged marriages aren't as popular as they used to be due to the Westernization taking place in a lot of countries these days. >.>
Depends entirely on the country and culture when dealing with arranged marriages.
Ah, okay. I'm not sure how I'd feel about having one though. If my family arranged a marriage for me, I'd be stuck with an uptight bible thumper and I would be miserable. It'd be like being married to my mom, minus the lesbian incest. D:
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04 Oct 2010, 5:08 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
nick007 wrote:
As I said before; I think Aspies would stand a much better chance if we had arranged marriages. That goes on in some other countries. If I could easily move to another country; I would go to one that has em. The only way I could ever get a woman is if she was pressured into it. American women will never give me a chance unless they are on something
I think a common misconception about arranged marriages is that women are forced into them. That's not always the case. In fact, many women request for their families to arrange a marriage for them.
When done right, arranged marriages are practical and a much better way to find companionship than our American way.
There is still a lot of pressure to be in a relationship thou. Lots of women tell me I'm a great guy but they never give me a chance & instead they chase guys who are not interested in em. If the women were getting pressured to be married; they might be more willing to give me a chance. I've been told before by older women how they wish their daughters or granddaughters would be interested in me
04 Oct 2010, 5:11 pm
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