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20 Jun 2012, 5:49 pm

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I read elsewhere something along the lines of: "you can spend months chatting with someone on a dating site, but within two minutes of meeting them you know whether its likely to work or not". I assume that this means that you might instantly realize that there isn't really a "connection" to be had (whether physical or non-physical).

Has anyone here met someone on a dating site and things haven't gone as expected (or vice versa)?

I wouldn't know, for two reasons. 1) the only girls who ever want to meet me, I already know nothing will come from it, as I don't find them attractive. 2) even if I met a girl i did consider attractive, I'm so bad at knowing what her intent is that I'd probably blithely continue on thinking we were always on the cusp of a relationship only to have her eventually be forced to pull the rug out from under me.

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20 Jun 2012, 5:49 pm

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I made an account on pof to see what is out there in this area while im here. I didnt bother making a deep profile.
"blankity blank dank bank pank tank sank frank prank yank. ok i ran out of things that rhyme. damn i still need more sentences wtf website,
really? Do you want me to make so much before seeing if its worth it?"

And posted that one shirtless pic of me with
"nooo, the dreaded mirror shirtless shot. ohhh the humanity Deal with it B)"
As thr caption. Within 6 hours of making the account i have 1 girl wanting to meet and another messaged me.

*edited cause you edited yours*

youllget attention. but dont expect much more than that. Hell the messgae i got was "Hey cutie, how's your summer going?"

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20 Jun 2012, 5:50 pm

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I should put a picture of me in a bra so I can feel like I'm joining the crowd. I'm curious about the reactions. Then again, I made a troll account once. She had huge breasts and guys seemed to love her with little info in the profile.

youllget attention. but dont expect much more than that. Hell the messgae i got was "Hey cutie, how's your summer going?"

Was the chick fat or ugly or was she hot?

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20 Jun 2012, 5:51 pm

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youllget attention. but dont expect much more than that. Hell the messgae i got was "Hey cutie, how's your summer going?"

I'll just not do it. I don't feel like trolling with those people anymore, anyway.

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20 Jun 2012, 5:53 pm

I have three theories on why I'm not getting messages: I'm not as attractive as I think I am; My pictures suck; My profile Is weird. I'm also not aggressive. I've only had two girls message me and they are definitely 1's out of 10.

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20 Jun 2012, 5:53 pm

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Kinme wrote:

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youllget attention. but dont expect much more than that. Hell the messgae i got was "Hey cutie, how's your summer going?"

Was the chick fat or ugly or was she hot?

http://pics.pof.com/dating/119/92/i2qzz ... 143425.jpg

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20 Jun 2012, 5:54 pm

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Most girls dont do chasing. So by default if you're not aggrssive you may as well not bother

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20 Jun 2012, 5:54 pm

This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

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20 Jun 2012, 5:56 pm

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This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

No, you just cater to a different type of woman. Having math as a hobby can be quite attractive as it shows you are a very intelligent person. And the way you wrote it makes it sound as if you enjoy using your head.

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20 Jun 2012, 6:01 pm

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This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

If you wanted to attract brainless, fling-type chicks, you're doing it wrong.

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20 Jun 2012, 6:03 pm

Kinme wrote:

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This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

If you wanted to attract brainless, fling-type chicks, you're doing it wrong.

i agree with your sentiment, but i have learned theres not that many of the other type of women around in some parts of the world (for example south florida) so you either have to learn to deal with what you can catch or not bother. Trying to catch a trout with a sailfish hook might be hard.

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20 Jun 2012, 6:05 pm

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This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

If you wanted to attract brainless, fling-type chicks, you're doing it wrong.

-.-... Sorry to hear that.

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20 Jun 2012, 6:11 pm

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This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

If you wanted to attract brainless, fling-type chicks, you're doing it wrong.

I want any type. My only requirement is that there is physical attraction. I can't stand brainless people but I think I rather have a brainless person than someone I'm not attracted to. For instance there is this girl at school that likes me but there is no physical attraction whatsoever. Thus I can't be with her. I love her personality and intelligence and wish to remain good friends with her. My ideal woman would be average or above average looking with average or above average intelligence. But I don't think I'll ever end up with a woman. I'm too autistic lol. fml. That's why I'm hoping I can make lots of money because hopefully women will just gravitate towards me lol.

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20 Jun 2012, 6:34 pm

bizboy1 wrote:

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This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

If you wanted to attract brainless, fling-type chicks, you're doing it wrong.

I don't know whether to feel sad or happy for you, lol. Maybe you should find an autistic girl who's attractive and too autistic as well.

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20 Jun 2012, 7:53 pm

Kinme wrote:

bizboy1 wrote:

Kinme wrote:

bizboy1 wrote:

This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

If you wanted to attract brainless, fling-type chicks, you're doing it wrong.

I don't know whether to feel sad or happy for you, lol. Maybe you should find an autistic girl who's attractive and too autistic as well.

it still sounds like a better love story than twilight

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20 Jun 2012, 8:16 pm

MXH wrote:

Kinme wrote:

bizboy1 wrote:

Kinme wrote:

bizboy1 wrote:

This is on my profile. I guess I'm not dating material:

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As for my hobbies, I like math. It's been an obsession of mine for the last 4 years. I particularly enjoy proving things and understanding difficult, abstract concepts.

If you wanted to attract brainless, fling-type chicks, you're doing it wrong.

I don't know whether to feel sad or happy for you, lol. Maybe you should find an autistic girl who's attractive and too autistic as well.

it still sounds like a better love story than twilight

Are you good at writing cliche love novels? Somebody should write a book about this.

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